Topic: What am I doing wrong?
Kathyzee's photo
Thu 03/17/16 07:41 AM
Is there anything in my profile that suggests that I would be interested in a "intimate encounter" r "activitie partner"?

Maybe there's something you can see that maybe I'm not? Thought I was clear in what I was lookin for..

irisheyes56's photo
Thu 03/17/16 08:04 AM
Your profile is straight to the point. Unfortunately some people are to stupid and should not be left alone near a computer!

Kathyzee's photo
Sat 03/19/16 03:41 PM

Your profile is straight to the point. Unfortunately some people are to stupid and should not be left alone near a computer!

Thanx for replying to my question. I guess I'm just at the point where now I'm questioning my profile because nearly 70% of the emails I do receive, are those of scammers and ppl that are looking for something I'm clearly not interested in. Thought maybe somewhere in between the lines of my profile gav ppl the wrong idea of what I'm actually on here for. So I guess I'll just continue to decipher through the email I receive with hopes of one day finding the one :smile: . Again thanx for ur input irisheyes :smile: .

blah..blah..'s photo
Sat 03/19/16 04:16 PM
Edited by blah..blah.. on Sat 03/19/16 04:27 PM
Your profile is fine, I'm not sure how you're getting messages if you've filtered your preferences though?

and you're doing very well if only 70% are from scammers and fakes lol

edited: just realised you haven't got any filters, or did you mean the actual message content?

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 03/19/16 04:20 PM
I have to say I am pretty much with Irish on the thought some people should not be allowed a computer but hey the world takes all kinds. lol

I don't know if your profile is "wrong" but I think I would edit a couple things. With some, no matter what you put, they will take the it out of context and twist it around but you kind of have to think like a "deprived " man when you post a profile if you want to not be "interpreted". Lean to the executive assistant and away from anything that could be even remotely constructed to be a professions sex worker. Or you mail will melt down with creeps and guys wanting freebies. Not fair but this is the world wild web. Even us old gals are not immune so try not to be too frightened or offended.

You might want to redefine your career. My guess is you are trying to be vague but if you do not want the go to place be "Sexual servicing men" you probably want to avoid saying "Personal Assistant" or and be clearer about the thinking part of your job. Are you a copy editor, booking agent, auditor, filing and records clerk? Ordinary, boring, stable employment is great on a profile if you want to connect with peer professionals.

FYI Keep in mind bosses do look on line even though they legally are not suppose to they do. Do NOT commit career suicide.

That you are so pretty and young you probably want to avoid the "romantic" kissy face and the reclining position in your second photo even if it is in and upscale office. I would not suggest being so stuck up or serious as not to smile but any kind of posing or vamping always get blown way out of proportion.

Keep your chin up and keep posting. I have been impressed so far and I doubt I am the only one that has noticed. The good guys are kind of watch and see. Some are shy and you may get peerved or just a Hi. Read their posts and say something minor in reply and I bet you will have a string of guys fast. Good Luck.

Kathyzee's photo
Sat 03/19/16 05:00 PM
Edited by Kathyzee on Sat 03/19/16 05:14 PM
Thanx Pacificstar, pic is gone and changed the headline of what I do for my profession. I appreciate ur honesty and hope that helps drop the % of fools out there emailing me :laughing: .
And thanx for the comp. Clearly I'm new to the forums, but as of now I'm hooked and now find myself more so on here for the forums then anything else bigsmile

Kathyzee's photo
Sat 03/19/16 05:07 PM

Your profile is fine, I'm not sure how you're getting messages if you've filtered your preferences though?

and you're doing very well if only 70% are from scammers and fakes lol

edited: just realised you haven't got any filters, or did you mean the actual message content?

Hi Giantowl. I thought I did put in my filters. Although I'm having trouble viewing them. Would u know how I could view filters again?
And good to know I'm not alone in a sea of scammers and fake lol..

no photo
Sat 03/19/16 05:56 PM

Your profile is straight to the point. Unfortunately some people are to stupid and should not be left alone near a computer!


loved this one lol lol lol

metalwing's photo
Sat 03/19/16 06:01 PM
The problem is that you are attractive to all men and that includes the ones you hope not to attract. Just ignore the losers and play on the forums. You will meet nice people and have fun.

Welcome to mingle.

no photo
Sat 03/19/16 06:02 PM
Hi Kathyzee
i had a look at your profile
i think there is nothing wrong with your profile, or there is not any wrong signal that would look inviting men for an intimate counter.

it is just that, most of the men do not read the profiles
or even if they read, they will go after whatever in their mind is..

adivorcedone's photo
Sat 03/19/16 06:19 PM
Yup your profile and pictures are fine. Unfortunately, cannot say the same for some of the members....including me...:tongue:

Robxbox73's photo
Sat 03/19/16 06:24 PM
I concur. Nice profile. Nothing leading on. Welcome to Mingle. Join us in the forums. Ciao!

Gummiente's photo
Sat 03/19/16 06:24 PM
Nothing suggestive or misleading that I can see in your profile, your intent seems clear enough to me. I'm not a fan of using Bingo instead of English, though, but that's just my little pet peeve.

Good luck in your search!

elizabeth0921's photo
Sat 03/19/16 06:35 PM
Your profile is straight to the point. Beautiful pic. I have the same problem. There are a lot of scammers on here. Btw welcome to mingle.