Topic: Questions to the Other Gender - The Things You really Wonder
IgorFrankensteen's photo
Thu 04/07/16 02:14 PM

Why is it hard for men to admit they were wrong? slaphead

Why do men think women are drama queens when in fact we are just emotional?

Why do some men say they look and act much younger than their age on profiles? Also they call themselves attractive/handsome?

rofl laugh what


Ah yes. As always, I can only answer for me, not all men. But I know why SOME men have a hard time admitting they were wrong. It varies too.

Sometimes it's just ego. Embarrassment. The more energy s person puts behind insisting they are sure of something, the more embarrassed they are likely to be when it's clear they were mistaken.

But much more important, in the many little contests and battles between people in relationships, is that most such battles are not isolated. They are connected to lots of other things in the relationship.

That means that admitting you are wrong about one thing, might make you think you are going to lose a whole string of points, and have to argue everything all over again, or give up on all kinds of stuff.

If you are one of those who jump on someone who DOES admit a mistake, and you try to use their admission to get them to allow you MORE "victories," you will make things much worse.

I'm thinking here of things such as, if I tell person X that I am sure that I put the keys on the peg, but find I actually put them next to the toaster, then admit my mistake, SOME versions of person X will afterwards use the admission that I misremembered where I put my keys, to declare that I must be wrong about other things, that I have NOT gotten wrong.

Anyway. Bottom line, some men are, some aren't bad at admitting mistakes.


peggy122's photo
Thu 04/07/16 08:11 PM
Why do some men handle unrequited feelings from a woman so.badly? Some get rude, some sulk around and some even throw tantrums.

Its almost as if they are shocked at the nerve of a woman who refuses to like them back

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Thu 04/07/16 08:18 PM
very good question
today i have read enough swearings, rudeness and insult on the mails
i can easily survive if no more person insults me for the next 6 months lol

peggy122's photo
Thu 04/07/16 08:32 PM

very good question
today i have read enough swearings, rudeness and insult on the mails
i can easily survive if no more person insults me for the next 6 months lol


I dont get insulted a lot in emails but i get a lot of sulking from the guys i meet in real life. And i slways refuse them politely!

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Thu 04/07/16 08:39 PM


very good question
today i have read enough swearings, rudeness and insult on the mails
i can easily survive if no more person insults me for the next 6 months lol


I dont get insulted a lot in emails but i get a lot of sulking from the guys i meet in real life. And i slways refuse them politely!


my people are good about it and (because of location) they mail me badly a lot.

peggy122's photo
Thu 04/07/16 08:42 PM



very good question
today i have read enough swearings, rudeness and insult on the mails
i can easily survive if no more person insults me for the next 6 months lol


I dont get insulted a lot in emails but i get a lot of sulking from the guys i meet in real life. And i slways refuse them politely!


my people are good about it and (because of location) they mail me badly a lot.


I cant stand rudeness !

NOBootyHunter's photo
Fri 04/08/16 06:47 AM
Ladies have you ever passed gas in pantyhose and a bubble of air run down your leg?noway

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 04/09/16 07:23 AM

Way back in history women burnt their bras to feel liberated .. What did men truly think . Does modern man ever feel the need to be liberated .. From what I wonder ????
learning how to avoid most all personal responsibility,,,lol

blah..blah..'s photo
Sun 04/10/16 01:45 AM
Why do women do that silly flappy hand in front of the face thing, when they see something shocking or emotional? whilst repeating OH MY GOD!!

frustrated

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Sun 04/10/16 08:06 AM
i tried imagining that hand thing..
:couldnt:

monet29's photo
Sun 04/10/16 10:33 AM
on the question on why women like to see a man shave...i don't get it, really women do that? gosh and im one..lol

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Sun 04/10/16 10:40 AM
Why do women always ask questions they already know the answers to..ie
..you see me getting my golf bags out of the garage.. and say..sooo..
Are you planning on going golfing...?
Always makes me feel like I'm being set up....yes..I was think of going golfing..you sad you had no plans for us..today..soo...

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Sun 04/10/16 10:50 AM

Why do women always ask questions they already know the answers to..ie
..you see me getting my golf bags out of the garage.. and say..sooo..
Are you planning on going golfing...?
Always makes me feel like I'm being set up....yes..I was think of going golfing..you sad you had no plans for us..today..soo...


what can i say?..
you are right..
i do not get those kind of questions too :smile:

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Sun 04/10/16 01:56 PM

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Sun 04/10/16 04:55 PM
Blondey you have great questions
reading them i think "yeahhh someone please answer these!!"
i would like to read the replies :D

adivorcedone's photo
Sun 04/10/16 04:56 PM
Natural looking , well shaped and full....thats what I look at...yeah, and the eyebrows should try to look like that to...:wink: :wink:

no1phD's photo
Sun 04/10/16 06:01 PM

Wondring what men like when it comes to eyebrows on a women . Do you like natural brows .. Drawn on pencil thin eyebrows .. The no eyebrow look .. Well defined .. over exagerated .. Do men have a preference :-)
..thay have eyebrows!! Never noticed..to busy looking.at there..
.. tata's..lol

NOBootyHunter's photo
Sun 04/10/16 08:07 PM

Wondring what men like when it comes to eyebrows on a women . Do you like natural brows .. Drawn on pencil thin eyebrows .. The no eyebrow look .. Well defined .. over exagerated .. Do men have a preference :-)



Not a fan of drawn on eyebrows, my only preference is that they do not connect above the nose...


blah..blah..'s photo
Mon 04/11/16 08:53 AM

Wondring what men like when it comes to eyebrows on a women . Do you like natural brows .. Drawn on pencil thin eyebrows .. The no eyebrow look .. Well defined .. over exagerated .. Do men have a preference :-)


Natural looking usually, don't like a false look on a woman.
But saying that, they have to compliment her eyes, if she has luscious eyes then i tend not to notice eyebrows etc :smile:

peggy122's photo
Mon 04/11/16 09:13 AM

What is the manliest thing you can do that does not involve a boner :-)


I really like this question that blondey asked! :smile:

Any guys wanna answer it? bigsmile