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Topic: Good girls come in last.
Twintidbits24's photo
Wed 04/20/16 10:51 AM

all these one sided stories on here... so, the question is, why did he break up if you were so nice and understanding, bending over backwards for him?




I myself couldn't understand what suggestions she is asking about based on the scenario given lolzzzz....what

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 04/20/16 10:56 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 04/20/16 10:56 AM


I always try to make sure that good girls come first


And what kind of "come" are YOU referring to Beach? :angel:


:angel: Well just be a good little girl Pegs, and I just might show you.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 04/20/16 11:09 AM


all these one sided stories on here... so, the question is, why did he break up if you were so nice and understanding, bending over backwards for him?




I myself couldn't understand what suggestions she is asking about based on the scenario given lolzzzz....what


when listening to break up scenarios, unless we know both stories it's hard to make a logical judgement...

unless she just wants people to feel sorry for her and get support for nothing...(which isn't helping her in the long run)

Twintidbits24's photo
Wed 04/20/16 11:09 AM


I was dating a guy that I had fallen in love with . And good dates. One weekend we had a really good date. He took off to Portland for a weekend and the next time we talk he tell me we need to talk. I bent over backwards for him and done things I never would have. I guess cute, sweet and kind don't win the guy . Any one have any suggestions? :pensive:


Maybe when he realised you had fallen in love with him he discovered he was not in love with you, it happens. Better to be out of a one sided relationship, he did you a favour, at least you had some good dates so it wasn't all bad.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.


Agree on This One...It is not because of the marital status that he broke up with you I guess, it is just "He fell Out of Love", and he did made a favor for you coz it is already a one-sided relationship and it wouldn't be fair to continue on. So just try to find the right man for you that will truly love you as you are. Is being divorced a guarantee that men will fall for you?? "A BIG NO". If a person Loves You, He Will Love You No Matter What, and then work on that divorce if both parties wants to live together just to show your sincerity to your partner; but it is really not a big deal if you both want to start off a relationship, coz you are just on the getting to know stage. I just don't understand why this is an obstacle for some people sad2 spock whoa

ErotiDoug's photo
Wed 04/20/16 11:11 AM

all these one sided stories on here... so, the question is, why did he break up if you were so nice and understanding, bending over backwards for him?




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Annierooroo's photo
Wed 04/20/16 11:33 AM
Edited by Annierooroo on Wed 04/20/16 11:33 AM
On the positive side look at it like this.

You have a jar full of water and mud. It's all mixed together. Brown, mirkery yuck. When the jar is sitting there the mud goes to the bottom and the water becomes clear, right?

If good girls wait for the crappy guys to go then you end up with a good guy who has a clear mind.


The good guys are out there it's matter of waiting for them to shine. Eventually they do.

peggy122's photo
Wed 04/20/16 02:26 PM



I always try to make sure that good girls come first


And what kind of "come" are YOU referring to Beach? :angel:


:angel: Well just be a good little girl Pegs, and I just might show you.


rofl

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 04/20/16 02:28 PM

I always try to make sure that good girls come first

Great ... so much for being a bad girl between the sheets tears tears

no photo
Wed 04/20/16 03:14 PM
Good women and good men don't come last.

Most people who say this are judging themselves to be a good man or woman.
I'm not saying your not a good woman either.

Some people covet bad things happening to them so they can feel sorry for themselves, it tends to show through to other people.

The thing I find about this is that they don't even know it.
Similar to people who say they are ill all the time.

He may have given you exactly what you wanted.

Only you will truly know that.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 04/20/16 03:22 PM


I always try to make sure that good girls come first

Great ... so much for being a bad girl between the sheets tears tears


pitchfork Yah, well simultaneous works too.bigsmile

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Fri 04/22/16 03:08 PM



I always try to make sure that good girls come first

Great ... so much for being a bad girl between the sheets tears tears


pitchfork Yah, well simultaneous works too.bigsmile

Even better :angel:

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