What do you think guys?

The one who gives you happiness that you can not explain will always be a reason of your sadness that you can not explain.

Well I think you can hold onto it as long as you want to.
But you are only half the equation.

its what you believe ,, what i believe means nothing....what you believe is your

reality and that determines your (life script) ie path ....our lives are all

about our beliefs... we live them every day of our lives.....

Well is a strong felt Gift the creator has given us..
It has to be shown Daily.It has to be from the Heart.
If you love someone it will last for ever if it Real True love.
It takes 2 People to work together to make it last a life time.
There is no time limit on LOVE. Ruby

Soufie, you are so right on it takes two people with permission to be

happy.....what i mean is we each have to give ourselves permission to be

happy...to give and receive love...unfortunately many people have injunctions in

they're subconscious that they are unaware of......example; (i do not deserve

love) (i am not loveable) (they are not loveable) (the people i love will leave me)

and on and on, its how we were told to be as a child by others around

us....forever living in the past.......happiness is in the ''here and now ''

I honestly believe it only takes one person to be happy, and that person is ourselves we choose to love and to be happy, no-one chooses either for us.

That being said, I think it takes to people who are happy with themselves that come together to be HAPPIER with each other.

Kind of like any pastry recipe, if you forget the sugar(happiness) it's going to be sour, if you double the sugar it will be sweeter.

You also can't just add salt(sadness/depression/etc) because it will overpower whatever sugar you already put in the recipe, causing your happiness to be drowned out by their sorrow.

I think this doesn't make much sense.

Are you trying to say "you may feel love now, but you won't always feel that way?"

Are you trying to say "you may think you feel your love for them, but it might just be their love for you?"

Are you trying to say "true love is a two way street and only exists in reciprocity, you may feel love but it could be their love comprising most of what you feel, overshadowing your contribution, so it's not yours?

Are you saying "You may sense or experience love from another relationship, your parents for each other, your friends for each other, and that can infect you so you feel closer to your partner but it's not really your love you're feeling but reacting to an external source?"

"love do not always be ours" isn't worded very well.



If you can't explain it, how do you really know it's them that gave you happiness, or that it's actually happiness?

It's just as likely you are forcing yourself to feel happiness as a means of keeping yourself from facing some kind of problem, fear, or stress.

Or that you feel happiness and you want to attribute it to them, to rationalize a functional relationship, when really the happiness stems from something else.

? WDYT..... what does that stand for..?..

Not for sure but I would say...
What do you think!!!

... I don't know what to think..
It means... I was trying to get that from the Op... what do you think it means?...ohhhh... wait a minute!!lol

Sorry... lol

Hallo thanks for the answers. I mean, i love him/her. But acctlly we cant be together as a couple. Bcs, there's something problem in our fam. So what do you think if ur on my shoes?

:-)

Yeah, I do not even understand the question? I despise text speak. I can not understand a damn thing anymore. I am freaking old.

I am certain that you can ALWAYS figure out everything. If you choose to. You can figure out why someone makes you feel good, why they make you feel bad, why you think you love them, and even why your family does or does not approve of them.

One nice thing: I've found that real love does NOT go away, because you lift the veil of mystery from it. Only FALSE love goes away. So it's worth the effort to figure it out.

Thanks for your suggstn. I hope i can figure it out asap. :)

Because we can't always have what we want .The person that we love sometimes we cannot have due to some barricades/hindrances. And our longing to be with the one we love gives us sadness, the frustration of wanting to be near or closer to him/her but you can't, makes you feel empty , useless and hopeless that you can't do nothing about it. If you have done everything for your relationship and still nothing happened, is for you to accept the reality of the situation. If you still love him or her, it is normal to dwell on it as long as you want, but for how long are you gonna carry the burden of sadness and pain. Will you just let that feeling bury you alive in loneliness? Mourn for the love lost or hopeless situation but you have to realize that you have to live your life to be happy not sad forever. Wake up and get out from the darkness, let the light come in ...... if you love him or her then just pray and believe that if you are really meant for each other, someday your roads will cross and will be together once again but if not, then move on, don't dwell in the past and don't let it steal your chance to find true happiness. Believe me, I've been there I locked my self away in my room for 3 months, lol...... crying, reading the Bible to find answers, praying, my family thought of me as crazy in love, lol! I suffered in silence for 3 years burying myself at work. Thank God, I woke up and realized I have to move on and face reality. May God give you enlightenment and give you the desires of your heart.

I can relate to this. . .my parents were against with my boyfriend especially my mom. I knew parents wants the best for their children. But in the name of love, I even disobey them. It's kinda hard feeling. The question is, is the man worth fighting for? If his intention is good, he should exert more effort and make your parents realized that he is worth for your love and to be love by your family too.

Thank you for your advise all :)