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why lie at all? whats the point? To trick you into going out with me. lol... if i have to trick women into going out with me, then i don't need to date... Just trying to insert a little humor into the thread.  i thought you were hitting on me again... 
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All depends on what the white lie was... And how simple it was to me the term white lie is something that is like sure you look good in that..... no they don't hate you.... ect Sure I like your family.... To basic of a question.... If they are lying about cheating, prison or jail records and what they were in for then that is not a white lie.. White lies are normally those small things that is not bad just keeps from hurting your feelings... nothing major.. But....regardless starting off any relationship with any sort of lies is not good.. and will only bite you in the azz later.. sure you look good in that Why would someone ask a question they do not actually want the answer to? eg., getting upset if the answer isn't what they wanted? Telling them the truth in this area, would actually help the relationship. It would allow the "person" to know what the spouse likes or doesn't like as in this example clothing. Because then the spouse will think the other liked it or enjoyed it and would continue to wear it and or buy similar outfits/clothing. If one wants too truly make the other "spouse" happy, then why would they not want the true thoughts on the situation so that they can either continue to do as such and even maybe expand that onto other elements of the relationship or stop doing that/wearing that as to make the other happy. Because happiness in a relationship comes from the happiness of the spouse :) Bro every normal person lies in his life to make the situation easy or not to hurt someone's feelings. Example if your pregnant wife asks you "do I look fat?", you don't say "you look like a cow wearing a jeans" but rather you say "you look beautiful or no honey I love you". These white lies make life easier and happier. Ofcourse sometimes they also know you are lying but it is for something good so they also don't mind. Why not just tell the truth? If she asks that, just say you look like a beautiful angel carrying our baby child :) No need for a yes or not specifically. |
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Edited by
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Okay got lot of opinions in general, now let me bring the actual topic in light.
I was in LA for the weekend and I accidentally bumped into my long lost best friend. He looked very sad and gloomy so I asked him about it and he started telling me his problem. He saw a lovely gal in a club and fell in love with her. He found out that she is a regular there so he started daily coming to that club just to met her and finally after 3 days he saw her again and approached her. Now he is a son of a very wealthy businessman and his ex was a gold digger so when this gal asked about him, he said that he is a poor guy who works as a waiter. He took a job in the same club, rented a room and starting hanging around this gal. They fell in love and as the relationship was getting serious, she found out about him and his dad from a magazine. Now she wants to break the relationship as she feels cheated but all my friend wanted was true love and not another gold digger. She is not talking or listening to him and he is all sad and suicidal so I told him that I will help him. Any ideas |
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Edited by
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Tue 07/26/16 04:06 PM
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why lie at all? whats the point? To trick you into going out with me. lol... if i have to trick women into going out with me, then i don't need to date... Just trying to insert a little humor into the thread. i thought you were hitting on me again... I gave up after you sent me that restraining order. 
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Ohhh..I stared a few..with big out right lies.... especially around closing time.at my local bar...lol..
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Okay got lot of opinions in general, now let me bring the actual topic in light. I was in LA for the weekend and I accidentally bumped into my long lost best friend. He looked very sad and gloomy so I asked him about it and he started telling me his problem. He saw a lovely gal in a club and fell in love with her. He found out that she is a regular there so he started daily coming to that club just to met her and finally after 3 days he saw her again and approached her. Now he is a son of a very wealthy businessman and his ex was a gold digger so when this gal asked about him, he said that he is a poor guy who works as a waiter. He took a job in the same club, rented a room and starting hanging around this gal. They fell in love and as the relationship was getting serious, she found out about him and his dad from a magazine. Now she wants to break the relationship as she feels cheated but all my friend wanted was true love and not another gold digger. She is not talking or listening to him and he is all sad and suicidal so I told him that I will help him. Any ideas If he is suicidal over a girl he's barely started dating, he's got bigger problems than his little white lie. |
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.. most relationships start off that way..
Frist..night together.. Him.. was that good for you baby.. Her...yes...  |
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.. most relationships start off that way.. Frist..night together.. Him.. was that good for you baby.. Her...yes...  
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OK....so only 8"
SORRY!!! 
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All depends on what the white lie was... And how simple it was to me the term white lie is something that is like sure you look good in that..... no they don't hate you.... ect Sure I like your family.... To basic of a question.... If they are lying about cheating, prison or jail records and what they were in for then that is not a white lie.. White lies are normally those small things that is not bad just keeps from hurting your feelings... nothing major.. But....regardless starting off any relationship with any sort of lies is not good.. and will only bite you in the azz later.. sure you look good in that Why would someone ask a question they do not actually want the answer to? eg., getting upset if the answer isn't what they wanted? Telling them the truth in this area, would actually help the relationship. It would allow the "person" to know what the spouse likes or doesn't like as in this example clothing. Because then the spouse will think the other liked it or enjoyed it and would continue to wear it and or buy similar outfits/clothing. If one wants too truly make the other "spouse" happy, then why would they not want the true thoughts on the situation so that they can either continue to do as such and even maybe expand that onto other elements of the relationship or stop doing that/wearing that as to make the other happy. Because happiness in a relationship comes from the happiness of the spouse :) Bro every normal person lies in his life to make the situation easy or not to hurt someone's feelings. Example if your pregnant wife asks you "do I look fat?", you don't say "you look like a cow wearing a jeans" but rather you say "you look beautiful or no honey I love you". These white lies make life easier and happier. Ofcourse sometimes they also know you are lying but it is for something good so they also don't mind. Jimmy, If you're pregnant wife asks you if she looks fat..... You should remember who got her there!!!! You did little fella. So you answer truthfully and say, You carry our child! You look beautiful!!!!!! Ok? Ok. |
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I prefer small white lies in such situations. Anything which can keep her smiling and confident. But like this there are many situation where you lie that was my point. Anyway back to ideas
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Okay got lot of opinions in general, now let me bring the actual topic in light. I was in LA for the weekend and I accidentally bumped into my long lost best friend. He looked very sad and gloomy so I asked him about it and he started telling me his problem. He saw a lovely gal in a club and fell in love with her. He found out that she is a regular there so he started daily coming to that club just to met her and finally after 3 days he saw her again and approached her. Now he is a son of a very wealthy businessman and his ex was a gold digger so when this gal asked about him, he said that he is a poor guy who works as a waiter. He took a job in the same club, rented a room and starting hanging around this gal. They fell in love and as the relationship was getting serious, she found out about him and his dad from a magazine. Now she wants to break the relationship as she feels cheated but all my friend wanted was true love and not another gold digger. She is not talking or listening to him and he is all sad and suicidal so I told him that I will help him. Any ideas seems you answered your own question here... |
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Okay got lot of opinions in general, now let me bring the actual topic in light. I was in LA for the weekend and I accidentally bumped into my long lost best friend. He looked very sad and gloomy so I asked him about it and he started telling me his problem. He saw a lovely gal in a club and fell in love with her. He found out that she is a regular there so he started daily coming to that club just to met her and finally after 3 days he saw her again and approached her. Now he is a son of a very wealthy businessman and his ex was a gold digger so when this gal asked about him, he said that he is a poor guy who works as a waiter. He took a job in the same club, rented a room and starting hanging around this gal. They fell in love and as the relationship was getting serious, she found out about him and his dad from a magazine. Now she wants to break the relationship as she feels cheated but all my friend wanted was true love and not another gold digger. She is not talking or listening to him and he is all sad and suicidal so I told him that I will help him. Any ideas seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now |
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Edited by
mightymoe
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Tue 07/26/16 06:43 PM
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Okay got lot of opinions in general, now let me bring the actual topic in light. I was in LA for the weekend and I accidentally bumped into my long lost best friend. He looked very sad and gloomy so I asked him about it and he started telling me his problem. He saw a lovely gal in a club and fell in love with her. He found out that she is a regular there so he started daily coming to that club just to met her and finally after 3 days he saw her again and approached her. Now he is a son of a very wealthy businessman and his ex was a gold digger so when this gal asked about him, he said that he is a poor guy who works as a waiter. He took a job in the same club, rented a room and starting hanging around this gal. They fell in love and as the relationship was getting serious, she found out about him and his dad from a magazine. Now she wants to break the relationship as she feels cheated but all my friend wanted was true love and not another gold digger. She is not talking or listening to him and he is all sad and suicidal so I told him that I will help him. Any ideas seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... |
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seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... I told the same thing to him that suicide won't help and it is time to be a man. They were going out for a year and he was going to propose her so the feeling is very strong and he should fight for his love. Well I am also looking for ways to help him so I posted this thread. |
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seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... I told the same thing to him that suicide won't help and it is time to be a man. They were going out for a year and he was going to propose her so the feeling is very strong and he should fight for his love. Well I am also looking for ways to help him so I posted this thread. |
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seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... I told the same thing to him that suicide won't help and it is time to be a man. They were going out for a year and he was going to propose her so the feeling is very strong and he should fight for his love. Well I am also looking for ways to help him so I posted this thread. Ah I see. This wasn't a little white lie he told in the beginning. He lied to her for a year. I wouldn't get back together with him either. |
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seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... I told the same thing to him that suicide won't help and it is time to be a man. They were going out for a year and he was going to propose her so the feeling is very strong and he should fight for his love. Well I am also looking for ways to help him so I posted this thread. Thank you mightymoe 
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seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... I told the same thing to him that suicide won't help and it is time to be a man. They were going out for a year and he was going to propose her so the feeling is very strong and he should fight for his love. Well I am also looking for ways to help him so I posted this thread. Ah I see. This wasn't a little white lie he told in the beginning. He lied to her for a year. I wouldn't get back together with him either. I understand that but still if we have to give him a chance what would be best way you feel |
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seems you answered your own question here... I know but this is the actual issue, how to make it work now i would say --- don't lie... i see your point on his behalf, but it didn't get him anywhere, and even if she did get back with him, he would spend a lot of time still trying to figure out if shes a gold digger now... so was the price of lying worth a month or two of getting what he wanted when he could have had so much more? but if she liked him without money, the only thing thats really changed is she knows he's a liar... he should pick up his ballsack and point that out to her, making her realize it was something he needed to do... but crying and threatening suicide won't help any whatsoever.... I told the same thing to him that suicide won't help and it is time to be a man. They were going out for a year and he was going to propose her so the feeling is very strong and he should fight for his love. Well I am also looking for ways to help him so I posted this thread. Ah I see. This wasn't a little white lie he told in the beginning. He lied to her for a year. I wouldn't get back together with him either. I understand that but still if we have to give him a chance what would be best way you feel He lied to her for a year even though he was sure enough about her to get ready to propose. He didn't trust her and now she can't trust him. Trust is nearly impossible to regain. Sorry but I think they should part ways hopefully having learned a very important lesson. |
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