I have heard this so many times in movies and real "You are a good person but I am not interested in this or a relationship". Does being good means you are not a good partner and gals only like bad or abusive guys?

well from my experience, a woman want somebody that's confident a man who get straight to the point, I'm not afraid to speak how he feels about her . in other words your game it's got to be tight. they like it when you get rejected and you don't get butt hurt about it. if you're begging for her attention you're just going to get friend zone.

No.
Saying "you're a good person, but..." is a means of selfish mental and emotional protection, not really an indication of desired personality traits in a future partner.

HELL NO.. NEVER

I like naught kittens.

Good grief no!! I personally don't like bad or abusive guys, there is nothing good about them. I think you need to be patient and find a girl who appreciates you for the good person that you are.

I have known a lot of men that get pushed into the friend zone , not because they are good but because they are either needy, moody, lacking confidence , overly predictable or lacking layers or balance in their personality.

Men and women are similar in that regard I think. Neither gender only looks for goodness in a mate. Both sexes look for a wide variety if qualities including mutual sexual attraction ,which is more than skin deep.

The women that choose the bad abusive guys are usually emotionally troubled themselves

I Call BS... I have stated this to men and they were good men actually great men. Just not for me. I have also remained friends with most of them..

Just because their personality and mine didn't mesh doesn't mean they aren't great men. 95% were fantastic men the problem was me and where I was at in my life.


It means that you are a great person and we really wish we could make it work but we are being as honest as we can be. Telling you that while you are a good person...You and I won't make it in the long run.


Do we want an abusive mate.." NO !!!"turn this around...

Do you want an abusive woman in your life. I hope to God your answer is NO.


Have you dated someone or actually was interested in someone the more you got to know the person the more you knew that in the long run you wouldn't make it as a couple. Were they bad women? Hopefully not.

Maxsterx: "I like naught kittens. "

Then here you go:

Women want nice men with a bad azz facade.

Men want nice women who act like sluts for only them.

Only screwed up people want to be with an actually ahole.




Sandra Bullock found out what happens when you married a real ahole bad boy.

Thank you for the explanation. I've wondered about that for quite some time.

After spending a lovely night or few, then this kind of comment on the relationship is what makes it hard to understand. Don't start a promise relationship and just go home after a good night fun

Well I was wonder about it

Thank you but I have already found a gal and she is really good. This is from my past experience and some things which my friends are discussing with me.

You are right and I feel the same now because of Jenny but most of the gals are on the other side. If you feel I am wrong then why are gals so crazy about bikers and bad rockstars?

You are right bro..that is why there is so much craze for bikers, rockstars and pornstars

think of it this way 'does being a good person mean everyone wants a relationship with you?'

of course not,,,

I believe people sometimes dont feel compatibility and maybe they clarify it this way to drive home that it has nothing to do with the character of the other person


'good' , in my opinion, is only a character judgment, plenty of 'good' people are not necessarily good fits to every other good person,,,

by exp. generally, women wants an alpha. they may settle for someone less but someone that has qualities of an alpha at least. a guy that can seize the moment. A capable guy. if a girl settles with you and you're a goodie too shoe and she might cheat on you.
i could say a balance of both evil and good. and knowing your girl is the most and basic essentials

That's true too but there is sometimes a common interest which makes them come together and bonding happens. Then people overlook the small incompatibilities and try to work in their relationship. But nowadays the easiest way is to say this and run away as if hardwork is overrated and no one wants to work on their relationship

At the end good wins over evil but before that evil always overpowers the good. Beating or abusing a woman is always the evil side of the person but bdsm is not? I feel everyone has seen "forrest gump", at last jenny came to him only