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No offense, but it sounds like a tall story to me ... I don't believe a damned word of it myself 
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Don't really see why you make such a problem out of it. It's quite normal a guy cannot keep up with a woman in that sense. Are you trying to break the laws of physics? Will only result in both becoming resentful when it comes to sex in the end. Turning on porn is a real nice rejection for a woman. Brilliant idea! If she isn't sated yet after you two been intimate and you want to please her further, use toys. Get a nice collection going. You have to accept that men can't keep up and that porn will not do your relationship any good when used the way you do it. She will have to accept that a man can't keep up and maybe learn to control herself a tad more. That will make it all the better when you do have sex together again and will take pressure of you to have to perform. Cos that could in the long run lead to ED and that's the last thing you'd want, or her for that matter. Well she prefers my tongue or other parts rather than toys. Initially she was the shy type (in trying stuffs) so porn was used to break the ice with both our consents. Once she was open, things became great and marathons started but as I was out of practise so my cooling period was more. In that time I used toys, tongue and fingers to keep her going. Later with her consent I used porn to reduce the cooling period and it worked wonders but now suddenly she started complaining. Then maybe she has to grow up and learn to accept that you can't always get what you want and that you cannot nor shouldn't expect the impossible of other people, esp not the ones you claim to love. Must say I find it strange you post this stuff on here... do you really have a GF to begin with? I mean ... I'd never ever post stuff like this about my lover on an open forum for the whole world to see. I'd ask a friend or something or better yet.... I'd talk to my lover about it. No offense, but it sounds like a tall story to me ... I didn't think about it until maria and you pointed it out. I thought measurements or description of incident would be the personal point here and out of scope for other people but now I think I may have written a bit out of line. I was trying to keep the focus on me and my porn issue which needs a solution. |
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My opinion is I would rather have less sex that was a real connection between me and my man than lots of sex fuelled by porn in the background. Use the recovery times to try a little tenderness. Not everything is about sex. I find this very soothing and accurate |
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My opinion is I would rather have less sex that was a real connection between me and my man than lots of sex fuelled by porn in the background. Use the recovery times to try a little tenderness. Not everything is about sex. I find this very soothing and accurate Thanks Jason and welcome to the forum. I find it soothing too but not always applicable in my case |
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My gf is a very attractive gal and I get excited just by her touch, I guess you guys can understand right. Because of so much excitement we normally have marathons on bed and lucky for me she loves sex too. After sometime it becomes exhausting so I switch on porn to continue the session with which she was fine but nowadays she complains that I am more interested in porn than her and I require porn to have sex with her. It is not like I need porn to have sex with her, it is just that I need time to recover which shortens if I see porn. Is something wrong in seeing porn?? (it is just gal on gal or normal sex porn) Well, you have me beat. I just watch the news and go to bed, you have wild kingdom going on in your bedroom.. I envy you Twice a week at my age is not enough so only the monkey business goes on. |
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I agree. Too much information. It reminds me of some chats I ve had. I really don't want to know all that. It s maybe all about a cheap thrill or bragging. Either way if I was his gf and I saw this he'd suddenly find himself without the original problem :D
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Edited by
Jimmy_roy
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Wed 09/28/16 09:08 AM
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Well I was trying to keep the focus on my problem, guess I went too far by giving lot of unneeded details. Lesson learned thanks |
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I agree. Too much information. It reminds me of some chats I ve had. I really don't want to know all that. It s maybe all about a cheap thrill or bragging. Either way if I was his gf and I saw this he'd suddenly find himself without the original problem :D Well lesson learned, I just hope she doesn't think like you guys and get more angry on me. She is already angry on me for porn. |
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Edited by
Jimmy_roy
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Wed 09/28/16 09:12 AM
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Well, drag a trampoline in there put some mirrors on the ceiling and go to it. Make it harder to get at. Ah change of ambience..good thinking. That will bring a different angle to our love making. Thanks 
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Jimmy .. Send her on a sex worship .. Even attractive girls need to know how to please a man .. Being attractive is not enough . She should learn how to turn you on . If she is expecting you to arouse yourself then there is a whole world or porn out there .. Perhaps experiment :-)  agreed |
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Jimmy .. Send her on a sex worship .. Even attractive girls need to know how to please a man .. Being attractive is not enough . She should learn how to turn you on . If she is expecting you to arouse yourself then there is a whole world or porn out there .. Perhaps experiment :-) agreed Me too but no porn will help |
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Edited by
Jimmy_roy
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Thu 09/29/16 01:05 PM
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Had a big discussion with her..it seems she saw my old porn collection and that lead to all this misunderstanding
 . I explained her and it really took lot of time but now she is fine only if I sell or donate my collection  . So <b> SALE SALE SALE <\b> Porn collection..  
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