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Topic: Christian way of dating
Maegan26's photo
Tue 09/27/16 01:22 AM
Hi everyone! Pls share with me your thoughts about Christian dating. what are your negotiable & non-negotiable.

MrMattJohn's photo
Tue 09/27/16 06:05 AM
age-negotiable
honesty-non-negotiable
trust-non-negotiable
humor-an absolute must
romance-definitely

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Tue 01/31/17 09:48 PM
I think that the wisest thing to do is to be FRIENDS before you date. When you know someone as a friend, you have already learned so much about each other. You have the information you need to determine if they are someone you would even THINK about marrying.
It's sad to date and break up, date and break up... after awhile, people lose their ability to trust. This is why I DON'T DATE. I make friends. Maybe that's also why I've been single for 9 years.... But, as the song goes: Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart!

JulieABush's photo
Wed 02/01/17 01:33 PM
I'm one of those "Owner of a lonely heart" (love that song by Yes and got it on my iTunes) and I also believe in the True Love Waits motto.

krissy55101's photo
Wed 02/01/17 01:49 PM
True Christians wait until they are married before having sex. There should be no negotiating about that. It seems kind of old-fashioned with the way the norms are today but it is still the right thing to do.

JulieABush's photo
Wed 02/01/17 05:28 PM
Yeah, Krissy I agree:thumbsup:. It just seems to me, and I hope you too, that we emphizes too much about sex and push our young people on having sex at a young age through what they see on TV and movies and even the music they listen to. I'm proud to be a virgin and will stay so until Mr. Right comes along. It seems to me that in the past we shund those who were sexually active and praised those who were virgins now it seems the other way around but it hasn't changed me and never will.

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Sun 02/12/17 09:16 AM
Christian dating is applying Christian value to relationship, trust, honesty, forgiveness is attributes of a practical Christian which must be reflected in Christian dating and also abstinence from pre marital sex because God does not approve of it(1cor6:18-20)

msharmony's photo
Sun 02/12/17 10:28 AM

I think that the wisest thing to do is to be FRIENDS before you date. When you know someone as a friend, you have already learned so much about each other. You have the information you need to determine if they are someone you would even THINK about marrying.
It's sad to date and break up, date and break up... after awhile, people lose their ability to trust. This is why I DON'T DATE. I make friends. Maybe that's also why I've been single for 9 years.... But, as the song goes: Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart!


here, here , sisterdrinker drinker

I think I actually turn away when someone is 'looking for dating', which makes it hard to ,,,,make friends,,,lol

Beman1997's photo
Sun 02/12/17 06:20 PM
I just got back into church

kylermarley's photo
Wed 02/15/17 09:57 AM
well said

pauldutt's photo
Thu 02/16/17 08:54 AM
hi

pauldutt's photo
Thu 02/16/17 08:54 AM
Hi

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Sun 03/19/17 08:40 AM
Dear Krissy, thank you very much for our statement:))

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Sun 05/07/17 05:46 PM
1 Respect -do not treat her like trash.
2No drinking it clouds judgement for both of you
3Be real , genuine and trustworthy

msharmony's photo
Mon 05/08/17 07:29 AM
Edited by msharmony on Mon 05/08/17 07:30 AM

I think that the wisest thing to do is to be FRIENDS before you date. When you know someone as a friend, you have already learned so much about each other. You have the information you need to determine if they are someone you would even THINK about marrying.
It's sad to date and break up, date and break up... after awhile, people lose their ability to trust. This is why I DON'T DATE. I make friends. Maybe that's also why I've been single for 9 years.... But, as the song goes: Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart!



ahh, a kindred spirit...

never understood why 'friend zone' became such a bad thing,,,its the only zone for me to choose a partner from,,,,,flowerforyou

fishtailz's photo
Tue 05/09/17 12:24 PM
Edited by fishtailz on Tue 05/09/17 12:27 PM
Christian relationship should have God being the center of errthing

dreamerana's photo
Tue 05/09/17 07:35 PM

Hi everyone! Pls share with me your thoughts about Christian dating. what are your negotiable & non-negotiable.

Your values and your faith are non negotiable

shalomagain's photo
Wed 05/10/17 09:55 AM
It's a jungle out here - happy to see some faith- filled friends online!!

monicarenee's photo
Thu 05/11/17 10:38 AM
Seems to be too many sex crazed people... I have had to block so many even though I have made it very clear on my profile!!

karina232's photo
Sat 05/13/17 08:51 AM
I'm single looking for serious and honest relationship

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