Sounds like he fulfilled a child-hood fantasy.

You knew he liked you when you were younger, you kept him on a string as a 'friend' probably knowing full wellwhe wanted more the whole time. But...no you wouldn't dream of it

Guy finally moves on with his life gets married and now you're separated, so you call him knowing hey at least this guy still likes me...now its convenient for you to 'let loose' with him...never mind the wife she is a mere inconvenience. ..he's always loved me..

in my opinion HE should run far far far away from you because you're obviously self absorbed and manipulative.

I don't feel bad for you, I feel bad for him because he made a poor choice to be around you, and gave in to poor judgement and most likely you just totally screwed up his whole life. .good job

Yeah his supporting me sometimes. Everytime i have problems... His always there for me

well that sounds like a give and take relationship ...

I am not sure you can really call that love ...

if you keep needing his help ... then you do need to think of this relationship just as you are one of his mistresses...
and just come to grips with that ... you may love his help but not really him ... you are the answer to your own ?... as to how you feel going forward with him ... I say since u need his help ... and your afraid on your own ... then leave it the way it is ... becouse someday you may realize your stronger then you think and their are other men out there that would love to be with you and treat you as a women and not just have a friend with benefits...

Yes because you said you're friends... So don't assume to much of what he feels for you... If you have respect left for yourself you wouldn't wish to have relationship with him aside from friendship cause you literally know he's married... No matter how you seek for an advice or opinion about your situation with him through others and you won't listen then everything is senseless

Personally I would walk away.
A good friend
- doesn't have sex with you if he's married.
- Tells their friend what they are doing is wrong.
- Don't destroy families
- Is honest and tells the truth.
- Thinks of how this is effecting others.

When you play with fire you eventually get burnt.

What is this relationship saying about who you both are?

People are not stupid. You think you are hiding it but you are not. Others can see what's going on.
Even his wife. I feel for her and any children involved.

But his not the only one whos helping always. Both of us has good job and wer on the same field so sometimes he needs my financial helpim helping him also. But now im screwd up with my finances so his always there for me... And i dont think i need him for help only...

Actually i feel so happy when his there with me. And i feel that his my world now except for my daughter... I avoided friends coz i want him to have all my time. And i wanted to always be available when he needs me. Hope somebody knows the feeling of being in love that what ever it takes ur always there for him. Sometimes he hurts me so much coz i feel so jealous i cant just move on and forget about him. Once hes feeling sorry for that an hes trying to let me understand the situation i always forgive him. In my previous relationship i wasnt like this. I feel so stock on him coz i believe that i love him so much...

Don't think of the b******t full of drama... He's not going to leave his wife just to be with you... If ever he does, you and him never gonna be happy and you really sound like an insane woman who is willing to be a home wrecker just to get the man... I feel sorry for you

He's married - end of story. Have some self respect and if not for you, for your daughter.

Ok thanks for the advise. But his wife has a relationship to another guy... I know coz that guy is also my friend... I know the fact that wer not legally married and i know the right thing to do. I tried so hard to leave this relationship but i always end up being with him. Do u know the feeling that nobody understands u... Its really hard to fit into something which u know it wont work..

The more people comment on your topic the more you continue the stiches of your story... You said you know the right thing to do? So why you decided to post this topic here for? You are obviously seeking for people who would understand you? Perhaps you need people of you're own kind... You are mockering yourself here...

Whatever is going on between him and his wife is their business. If they are cheaters, that is on them. But when you cheat with him, that is on you as well. He told you what you were to him but you won't listen. You are FWB...nothing more. Don't relyon someone that is married (legally or not) because he has a commitment to her, not you. Find someone else. Move on. You are trying to find something that isn't there

Then y u still reply on my post... But then thank you coz u still spend time replying to my post... Im not here seeking for a person of the same kind. Im here to know what the opinion of other. I know its wrong and im trying to move on also.. But having this feeling is so just difficult to forget everything... But any how thanks again...

It doesn't matter if his wife is cheating too. More reason to stay away from all that drama, and more importantly - focus on your daughter and keeping her in a healthy environment. :)

What message are you giving you daughter?

It's wrong.
No compromise.

What inni said is right...anyway... When you post your topic here it means you are open to hear or read comments, advice, opinion, criticism... And would you please read again all of what you have written here and try to understand yourself as you are misleading with your own story... Well anyway... Good luck with whatever life you and your daughter have with him.

He's not that into you...if he was he'd be leaving his wife and telling you so.

When he says that "you're just a friend" he means just that. You're a side-piece, an afterthought, whats leftover/available. He doesn't see you as anything but that...harsh but most likel the truth....you're his 'escape' no different than drugs or alcohol, something to take his mind off other things, people spend money on things that help them escape....doesn't mean they want those things permanently, just means they want to keep them around for they need another escape.....

THIS !!!
He friend zoned you with benefits nothing more doesn't matter what you want.

Honestly... if you were a person I knew in real time.
I would give you this advice...
Girl find your self worth and leave married men alone period...if they will cheat WITH YOU, they will cheat ON YOU!!!!

a friend does not take advantage of a friend in any way ...youre both using each other. you deserve better dear.