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Topic: women 's career matters or physical attribution is more impo
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Tue 04/11/17 07:48 PM
Edited by matrueyear on Tue 04/11/17 08:23 PM
She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?

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Tue 04/11/17 08:12 PM
which one you would prefer to date?

Neither. They both seem too polarized to an extreme.

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Tue 04/11/17 08:44 PM
Well if the career woman was a medical doctor at a busy institution, I'd be a bit more understanding. Other than that I wouldn't go for either one of them

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Tue 04/11/17 09:03 PM

She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?


Hum? I think some are missing the point. Me personally, I would go with the one that didn't make much money. And not because of how she is built. But because of the times spent with me. Because, When you get right down to it, I don't go with a woman because she is a high wage earner. I go with her because I like being with her. And she likes being with me. And that's what counts. At least to me.

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Tue 04/11/17 09:08 PM
if they both have similar attributes then the title to this thread is misleading


what you are saying is one is broke
the other has her own money

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Wed 04/12/17 12:27 AM
None of the parameters or specifications matter in the least, unless the woman specifically wants to be WITH ME.

And frankly, I don't want to DATE, anyone. Dating is a horrendous unpleasant socialization procedure, wherein people behave in artificial manners while trying to guess about each other's character, usually at rather large expense in time and money. I would much rather just do things together, that each of us would have done on our own anyway.

As you can tell, I have always been absolutely dreadful at the whole "dating" business.

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Wed 04/12/17 12:45 AM

She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?

Is there no middle ground?
This implies the woman's career isn't important.
That she has to sacrifice her dreams to have a relationship

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Wed 04/12/17 01:07 AM

None of the parameters or specifications matter in the least, unless the woman specifically wants to be WITH ME.

And frankly, I don't want to DATE, anyone. Dating is a horrendous unpleasant socialization procedure, wherein people behave in artificial manners while trying to guess about each other's character, usually at rather large expense in time and money. I would much rather just do things together, that each of us would have done on our own anyway.



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Wed 04/12/17 10:29 AM

She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?



I am not really attracted to how someone earns a living, whatever it was I would be happy with it. I would be less happy if their work was dangerous in any way.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

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Wed 04/12/17 10:35 AM
Well.. I have dated both women who are Workaholics and women who do not work at all...
Personally I would like to date somebody that has the balance.. holds down a job but it's not her everything

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Wed 04/12/17 12:07 PM

Well.. I have dated both women who are Workaholics and women who do not work at all...
Personally I would like to date somebody that has the balance.. holds down a job but it's not her everything


For me this applys to men too.

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Wed 04/12/17 12:10 PM

She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?


Does one excludes the other?

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Wed 04/12/17 12:39 PM
Attributes... If she makes more money than me, what would I need her for?

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Wed 04/12/17 12:46 PM
somewhere in the middle is what I want and have.

I was married to a physician who made 3 times what I did. I was after the children, career, best friend, cats, and dogs. I was a priority before the fish and the rabbit.

I don't want a stage 5 clinger who has no life of her own, either.

I want and have a woman who is beautiful, smart, independent, successful, and has the priorities in her life in order (including me).

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Wed 04/12/17 12:57 PM
:thinking:hmm... if we thinks logically, the busiest business women will not spend her quality time for dating.. she will be busy all the time to makes money..:joy:

It's really depends how busy she is..!

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Wed 04/12/17 01:00 PM

:thinking:hmm... if we thinks logically, the busiest business women will not spend her quality time for dating.. she will be busy all the time to makes money..:joy:

It's really depends how busy she is..!
a valid point.. if she's to busy making money, then my wants aren't being settled....

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Wed 04/12/17 01:09 PM


:thinking:hmm... if we thinks logically, the busiest business women will not spend her quality time for dating.. she will be busy all the time to makes money..:joy:

It's really depends how busy she is..!
a valid point.. if she's to busy making money, then my wants aren't being settled....


spock It depends where her priorities are, what's more important for her, the man she loves or career.
I have career too, but I work for living not the opposite. Of course, it is a good feeling, when you accomplish something, but it is still just work. When my work starts to affect my personal life, then it's time to stop and reconsider.


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Wed 04/12/17 01:10 PM
ya whatever man
I did that whole put the career on hold
stay at home be the housewife
thing...


it's over-rated

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Wed 04/12/17 01:16 PM



:thinking:hmm... if we thinks logically, the busiest business women will not spend her quality time for dating.. she will be busy all the time to makes money..:joy:

It's really depends how busy she is..!
a valid point.. if she's to busy making money, then my wants aren't being settled....


spock It depends where her priorities are, what's more important for her, the man she loves or career.
I have career too, but I work for living not the opposite. Of course, it is a good feeling, when you accomplish something, but it is still just work. When my work starts to affect my personal life, then it's time to stop and reconsider.



That's why the 'Balance' is the more important thing in every aspect of life..

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Thu 04/13/17 11:19 AM


She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?


Hum? I think some are missing the point. Me personally, I would go with the one that didn't make much money. And not because of how she is built. But because of the times spent with me. Because, When you get right down to it, I don't go with a woman because she is a high wage earner. I go with her because I like being with her. And she likes being with me. And that's what counts. At least to me.

Well thought and said

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