Topic: Discreet = unfaithful?
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Sun 07/23/17 02:34 AM
yes, it's true

TVcameraman's photo
Sun 07/23/17 02:54 AM
I pretty much have to go with the majority here. The few times I have seen discreet, it has been in the context of an affair. There may be other reasons where it might be used, but as of now, I have not seen them.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sun 07/23/17 08:23 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 07/23/17 08:23 AM
He is probably in a relationship already!!

no1phD's photo
Sun 07/23/17 08:40 AM
I always ask them to be discreet.. wouldn't want word to get out what a wonderful lover I am ..I would never get any sleep then....lol..

Twintidbits24's photo
Sun 07/23/17 09:36 AM

I always insist she wear her leash and collar under her blouse when we are in public.shades


I wonder why nobody could fall for your humors....Lolzzz...I guess the stripper is still in your house eh?? and your ex too..laugh

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Sun 07/23/17 03:28 PM
It's probably someone already in a relationship. I have another theory. I want to have a sexual relationship but all the women are beneath my standards. You're good to have sex with, but I don't want you to meet my family and friends. I'm looking for someone better to come along. A couple of guys have kind of implied that to me.

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Sun 07/23/17 05:08 PM
Whenever I read a description of someone looking for a person who can be 'discreet', for some reason, my mind automatically jumps to the conclusion that the person is a cheater looking for someone to cheat with.


I am sure the request could also mean they simply want someone modest, maybe they are famous and do not want it known they are dating anyone in particular,,,but what are the odds on a social site of someone who is famous?

do you think the same when you read someone looking for a 'discreet' relationship/arrangement?


Robxbox73's photo
Sun 07/23/17 05:09 PM
On Xbox,
The ad goes something like this...sinces its a gamer site.

Looking for Players!!
FWB
Night maneuvers. VERY COVERT. Must have microphone and very GOOD camera. Experience a plus and silence is golden. Contact day or night.
P.S. must be female!

;^)

no1phD's photo
Sun 07/23/17 06:42 PM

Discreet .. for whatever reason you do not want everyone knowing your private business spock I think president Clinton hoped the cigar encounter would be discreet laugh laugh
.. I don't think that was a cigar she was smoking..lol

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Sun 07/23/17 08:13 PM
at first instance one tends to think the same however there are times when some one needs a person to talk too to chat with

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Sun 07/23/17 10:27 PM

On a dating site or singles posting "Discreet' means affair.

There are times in real life dating and relationships where discretion happens on purpose.

Discreet
adjective
~ careful and circumspect in one's speech or actions, especially in order to avoid causing offense or to gain an advantage.
~ intentionally unobtrusive.

Discretion
noun
~ the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information.
~ the freedom to decide what should be done in a particular situation.

You don't take your date, lover, friend or spouse everywhere you know because it is inappropriate to the relationship.
You don't say or do things that are inappropriate.

Even people that tell you they have nothing to hide are discreet about some things.
Discretion is not a selling feature for an open relationship.
It is a method of preserving distance, keeping at bay.


Agreed!

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Tue 07/25/17 10:05 AM
Yeppers MizHarmony, my mind tends to jump to that conclusion also, unless they put in their proile that they need to be discrete because of their employment or standing in the community ( in which case a little voice in my head still says oh sure sounds like BS). Ima own up to it.... I trust no one

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 07/25/17 10:23 AM
If you are sneaking and going behind someone's back....big bad

Some just want sex without notoriety but not in a realtionship

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 07/25/17 03:40 PM

I always ask them to be discreet.. wouldn't want word to get out what a wonderful lover I am ..I would never get any sleep then....lol..



laugh

no1phD's photo
Tue 07/25/17 05:03 PM

If you are sneaking and going behind someone's back....big bad

Some just want sex without notoriety but not in a realtionship
sex without notoriety... I'm pretty sure after we have sex people will know.. just by the way your walking bowlegged..lol...jk

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Wed 07/26/17 12:39 AM

It's probably someone already in a relationship. I have another theory. I want to have a sexual relationship but all the women are beneath my standards. You're good to have sex with, but I don't want you to meet my family and friends. I'm looking for someone better to come along. A couple of guys have kind of implied that to me.


Your comment did remind me of this track from a 1967 Rolling Stones album, it supports your theory, that there are those kinds of people out there, maybe another kind of 'Friends with Benefits'.laugh

Back Street Girl
The Rolling Stones

I don't want you to be high
I don't want you to be down
Don't want to tell you no lie
Just want you to be around

Please come right up to my ears
You will be able to hear what I say

Don't want you out in my world
Just you be my backstreet girl

Please don't be part of my life
Please keep yourself to yourself
Please don't you bother my wife
That way you won't get no help

Don't try to ride on my horse
You're rather common and coarse anyway

Don't want you out in my world
Just you be my backstreet girl

Please don't you call me at home
Please don't come knocking at night
Please never ring on the phone
Your manners are never quite right

Please take the favors I grant
Curtsy and look nonchalant, just for me

Don't want you part of my world
Just you be my backstreet girl

Songwriters: KEITH RICHARDS, MICK JAGGER 1967

© Abkco Music, Inc.
For non-commercial use only.
Data from: LyricFind

Aneeda's photo
Sat 07/29/17 04:37 AM
That's the way I see it too

ispas626's photo
Sat 07/29/17 05:42 AM
I take everyone the way they want me to take them ..but I will be very careful while dealing with them

ispas626's photo
Sat 07/29/17 05:43 AM
that's true

ispas626's photo
Sun 07/30/17 07:01 AM
I've only ever seen it used when they were looking for someone to cheat with...

funny u. that's true