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Edited by
jceeph
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Wed 12/26/18 08:12 AM
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Out of shape means fat according to what that man wants. I dated a man who was very nice man and excellent date. He had his own home nice vehicle everything never married. He said to me, if a woman couldn't fit through his back yard Gate. She wasn't for him. That Gate was very small opening. But I was small and I fit through it. I thought he was kidding but after knowing him for a while, I think he was serious.  He doesn't date Online. 🤣🤣🤣 |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Wed 12/26/18 08:18 AM
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I have gone out with guys who "policed" what i ate..
"Do you *need* that dessert?"..etc. No, moron, I don't NEED it, but I *want* it.. I was a thinner gal all my adult life until PCOS made me gain an atrocious amount of weight really fast.. But it wasn't really an issue for my last two long terms.. The thing is, like Toodygirl said...if the woman puts on 10lbs/ 5 kilos..is he going to dump her? Shame her? Claim it's her fault he can't get a hard on anymore Calim it's her fault he now cheats? No thanks.. As I have said..looks can change on a dime, due to a serious accident or illness, and if a guy is THAT obsessed about what the woman weighs..he can move along.. Life is too short to live in fear of having to watch what you eat so your partner won't dump you. That ^ being said...we're not talking about people who eat junk all the time/ fast food, or people woth no sense of when to stop, like the people on that "My 600lb Life" show. I'm talking about a regular, normal person who gains 10-20lbs over the course of 10-20 years..but other wise is healthy (bloodwork good, endurance good, not sedentary..) Myself, i am *quite* active in the spring/ summer with yard work...and in the winter go to the gym... But, I'm never going to be a skinny gal again...I am built for comfort...not speed... 
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Out of shape means fat according to what that man wants. I dated a man who was very nice man and excellent date. He had his own home nice vehicle everything never married. He said to me, if a woman couldn't fit through his back yard Gate. She wasn't for him. That Gate was very small opening. But I was small and I fit through it. I thought he was kidding but after knowing him for a while, I think he was serious. He doesn't date Online. So were there any other red flags with this dude? In retrospect now? Lord knows he'd secretly built scales in there too, lol. No wonder he'd never been married. That to me is something that makes me raise my eyebrows. |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Wed 12/26/18 08:40 AM
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I have gone out with guys who "policed" what i ate.. "Do you *need* that dessert?"..etc. No, moron, I don't NEED it, but I *want* it.. I was a thinner gal all my adult life until PCOS made me gain an atrocious amount of weight really fast.. But it wasn't really an issue for my last two long terms.. The thing is, like Toodygirl said...if the woman puts on 10lbs/ 5 kilos..is he going to dump her? Shame her? Claim it's her fault he can't get a hard on anymore Calim it's her fault he now cheats? No thanks.. As I have said..looks can change on a dime, due to a serious accident or illness, and if a guy is THAT obsessed about what the woman weighs..he can move along.. Life is too short to live in fear of having to watch what you eat so your partner won't dump you. That ^ being said...we're not talking about people who eat junk all the time/ fast food, or people woth no sense of when to stop, like the people on that "My 600lb Life" show. I'm talking about a regular, normal person who gains 10-20lbs over the course of 10-20 years..but other wise is healthy (bloodwork good, endurance good, not sedentary..) Myself, i am *quite* active in the spring/ summer with yard work...and in the winter go to the gym... But, I'm never going to be a skinny gal again...I am built for comfort...not speed... My last partner was surprised when I ate a bacon slab off the BBQ. Not thin slices, but about 1,5 cms thick. He'd never been with a woman who did. I was a bit surprised myself about that. I guess his previous partners had been fussy about what they could/would eat. I do not wish to get fat, but I also don't want to be on a life-long diet. I don't believe in diets. If I eat reasonably healthy most of the times I can eat something not-so-healthy occasionally without putting on weight. So I guess he was pleasantly surprised to learn that normal women do exist, hihi. I couldn't be or live with a partner who was obsessed with what I eat either. None of anyone's business but mine. . . . |
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My last partner was surprised when I ate a bacon slab off the BBQ. Not thin slices, but about 1,5 cms thick. He'd never been with a woman who did. I was a bit surprised myself about that. I guess his previous partners had been fussy about what they could/would eat. I do not wish to get fat, but I also don't want to be on a life-long diet. I don't believe in diets. If I eat reasonably healthy most of the times I can eat something not-so-healthy occasionally without putting on weight. So I guess he was pleasantly surprised to learn that normal women do exist, hihi. I couldn't be or live with a partner who was obsessed with what I eat either. None of anyone's business but mine. . . . That's why I said what I said... My late husband and I ate mostly the "Mediterranean" diet.. I rarely drink soda....do not eat crap white bread (I bake my own bread mostly..rye, whole wheat) or cheap baked goods from the store..avoid havily "processed" foods as best I can. I try and eat as healthy as I can... But, if I want a second helping, or a dessert...I'll have it... If that bothers someone, they can sod off.. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Wed 12/26/18 09:30 AM
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Erasing, because of double posting.
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Wed 12/26/18 09:31 AM
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Out of shape means fat according to what that man wants. I dated a man who was very nice man and excellent date. He had his own home nice vehicle everything never married. He said to me, if a woman couldn't fit through his back yard Gate. She wasn't for him. That Gate was very small opening. But I was small and I fit through it. I thought he was kidding but after knowing him for a while, I think he was serious. He doesn't date Online. So were there any other red flags with this dude? In retrospect now? Lord knows he'd secretly built scales in there too, lol. No wonder he'd never been married. That to me is something that makes me raise my eyebrows. I think he was self-centered but at least he knew not to get married unlike some men , who are self-centered and take. a wife, then he is abusive to her. He was a Great date. Never have to pay for anything. He is a well Secure man financially. He's not bad looking and very outgoing personality. He doesn't commit but he has a grown daughter who is RN . I don't know about her mom. Only he lived with her a few years. That was in his early years. People think multiple divorces are a Red Flag. He does ! |
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I think he was self-centered but at least he knew not to get married unlike some men , who are self-centered and take. a wife, then he is abusive to her. He was a Great date. Never have to pay for anything. He is a well Secure man financially. He's not bad looking and very outgoing personality. He doesn't commit but he has a grown daughter who is RN . I don't know about her mom. Only he lived with her a few years. That was in his early years. People think multiple divorces are a Red Flag. He does ! Sounds like a guy to only date casual and for as long as you can keep him at a sound emotional distance, hihi. |
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@ICrystal
Yes he Was ! In the Past. |
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Guys who put very specific details on what kind of body they are looking for in a woman are really shallow and focusing on the wrong things.
Sure, you can get a woman with a hot slim body but she might also be shallow, self centred, a gold digger, a biatch and so on. That’s not what’s going to make you happy. There are so many things that are much more important in order to have a good relationship. If you don’t take a chance unless they have the perfect body, you may be alone for a long time. If you do find that body type, their personality may be crappy. Concentrate on more important things like respect, kindness, interests that make a person good to be around. |
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Thank you
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Baby at your age but at my age sex is very important I think everybody is different . And I think everybody has different opinions that maybe your opinion but it may not be the same opinion of others which is OK .
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I can’t believe you guys are believing this man he’s just sucking up at least I’m a straight Shooter. and let me tell you something I don’t care how good her personality is and how sweet she is and how much she wants to do for me if I’m not attracted to her I’m not gonna sleep in the same bed with her every night and have a life long relationship sorry .
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Thank you for sharing this piece of personal information. I will meditate on it.
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Thu 12/27/18 02:02 PM
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I was told by many of my dates that they are concerned about the woman s shape and size. That's not uncommon especially in any dating. Site.
I have dated in real life and it's the same. People. have preferences. |
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junk in the trunk? never heard that before anyway.. welcome and good luck   Junk fit for the dumpster 
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Um...
I hate to be the only kill-joy in the room .. … But is the OP holding his naked dick in his profile pic? 
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Um... I hate to be the only kill-joy in the room .. … But is the OP holding his naked dick in his profile pic? Yes! I just reported him |
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