Topic: Distance does Matter.
Daisy's photo
Wed 01/09/19 12:35 AM
yes not possible any long distance.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sat 01/26/19 03:31 AM
I have a 10 mile limit

hurrygoingfast's photo
Sat 01/26/19 04:18 AM
I looked for your profile here did not fine it.

Bob's photo
Sat 01/26/19 04:50 AM
It's all personal,
Do you want to limit yourself to a number of miles? your city or town? your county or state? Maybe you want everything in your lap and only date in your apartment complex or on your street.
The world is open, the limits your own.

 (1rin12 =line  rinskie2 =Instagram  's photo
Sat 01/26/19 05:57 AM
distance is not a hindrance its an options... friendship doesn't mean you need to see each other everyday .. by the help of social media even 1000 of miled we can still communicate to each other...

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 01/26/19 06:55 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 01/26/19 06:58 AM
Hopefully there will continue to be men out there who don't mind traveling for a nice woman. A relationship is not always found in your back yard. Or down the street from you. laugh

I've met men in person from different cities and 3different States in person.
Depends on what Venue you meet on.



Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 01/26/19 06:57 AM

It's all personal,
Do you want to limit yourself to a number of miles? your city or town? your county or state? Maybe you want everything in your lap and only date in your apartment complex or on your street.
The world is open, the limits your own.



laugh True!

I just stay in my Country ! USA

Bob's photo
Sat 01/26/19 09:47 AM
In my single days most of my girlfriends lived 20-30 miles away,
My wife was from 6500 miles away (New Zealand)
Now I'm in Costa Rica
Options narrow!

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 01/26/19 12:24 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 01/26/19 12:25 PM
You're an Exception Bob, many men wouldn't do that .

Thankfully there are some that will, if they find an interest in a woman.


Lulucita's photo
Sat 01/26/19 01:05 PM
Yes it matters, I'm from Chile and I'm not finding someone here nor mingle , there's some people I use to talk from other countries but they are not able to relocate, that's expensive even if someone worth it :sweat:

no photo
Sat 01/26/19 05:14 PM
it's not very practical to travel thousands of miles for a meetup.

Debradove's photo
Sat 01/26/19 06:50 PM

Most of my interests live Miles away from me. I met a really nice man, not on mingle2. I am on Relationship sites where people are into finding a good date.
However, distance can be a huge barrier.

So many say, they will go any distance to meet. We know that is not always the case.

Women sometimes are Willing to go that distance. Love is not always found in your City , guys!!

:smile:





no photo
Sat 01/26/19 07:43 PM
Freebird is saying he has a 10 mile radius to date. For me, 10 miles is down the block. A year ago, I lived 10 miles out of town. I had to drive that distance to go the supermarket, the post office and no big deal. Dating was not a big deal when living 10 miles apart. I guess we don't like each other much if we can't drive 10 miles?

oldkid46's photo
Sat 01/26/19 07:59 PM

Freebird is saying he has a 10 mile radius to date. For me, 10 miles is down the block. A year ago, I lived 10 miles out of town. I had to drive that distance to go the supermarket, the post office and no big deal. Dating was not a big deal when living 10 miles apart. I guess we don't like each other much if we can't drive 10 miles?
Cat is right, it has a lot to do with how far you travel for anything! 10 miles to the grocery or hardware store; 30-40 miles for a concert or play; 80 miles to the main airport. For those of us use to those distance of trips or actually travel some distance, a few hundred miles is not out of the question. It is not that unusual for me to make a one day trip of over 500 miles!

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sat 01/26/19 08:49 PM


Freebird is saying he has a 10 mile radius to date. For me, 10 miles is down the block. A year ago, I lived 10 miles out of town. I had to drive that distance to go the supermarket, the post office and no big deal. Dating was not a big deal when living 10 miles apart. I guess we don't like each other much if we can't drive 10 miles?
Cat is right, it has a lot to do with how far you travel for anything! 10 miles to the grocery or hardware store; 30-40 miles for a concert or play; 80 miles to the main airport. For those of us use to those distance of trips or actually travel some distance, a few hundred miles is not out of the question. It is not that unusual for me to make a one day trip of over 500 miles!


The thing is, *both* people have to want to/ be able to travel...

I am looking in areas a several hours drive away (and occaionally further), because I would readily relocate, having no ties here, and because I know it's rare to find what i am looking for in my region..
Neither my late husband, nor the man I was with before him were *from* here...they'd moved here for work...

I can't get any of the guys I message to reply...and, if they do, it's a flat "too far"...

The only ones who seem to yammer on about "distance os no barrier/ problem" are the scammer dudes... whoa frown

no photo
Sat 01/26/19 09:32 PM
Bluegrass, I kind of know what you mean. I don't live really remote. My town is probably the biggest within 100 miles of me. I can travel. I don't know if I want to move.

garry's photo
Mon 01/28/19 01:15 AM
totally agree with you

JAGGURA's photo
Mon 01/28/19 06:09 AM
from where are you?

joylella's photo
Fri 02/08/19 10:36 PM

Every woman I have started a conversation with on M2 turns out to be from Africa. Ghana, Nigeria, Camarroon, Istambul, Morroco, etc. They all list themselves as being from somewhere within 100 miles and their game is to start a fake relationship and start begging for money. The whole conversation turns into ITune cards or money transfer services. I can see why some here have been here for years, there is so much smoke being blown up your butt by foreigners you just have to wait and hope there is actually someone who REALLY DOES live in the U.S. Sheesh!


I don't know what their inititial message is (as I don't correspond with women on here)..
But, if the first message I get from someone is "wow you have a beautiful smile", or "you are so gorgeous are all the men near you blind that you are still single" or some other drivel (I am NOT smiling in my profile picture)...it's an immediate NOPE.

Or, if they send their phone number or e-mail in the first message, or want mine right away...another NOPE.

I've yet to have it get as far as asking for money..I usually shut it down WAY before that... LOL

why is it always...if it's someone from Africa is either a scammer wants your money or something else... I for instance I am not here be

joylella's photo
Fri 02/08/19 10:40 PM

Every woman I have started a conversation with on M2 turns out to be from Africa. Ghana, Nigeria, Camarroon, Istambul, Morroco, etc. They all list themselves as being from somewhere within 100 miles and their game is to start a fake relationship and start begging for money. The whole conversation turns into ITune cards or money transfer services. I can see why some here have been here for years, there is so much smoke being blown up your butt by foreigners you just have to wait and hope there is actually someone who REALLY DOES live in the U.S. Sheesh!


I don't know what their inititial message is (as I don't correspond with women on here)..
But, if the first message I get from someone is "wow you have a beautiful smile", or "you are so gorgeous are all the men near you blind that you are still single" or some other drivel (I am NOT smiling in my profile picture)...it's an immediate NOPE.

Or, if they send their phone number or e-mail in the first message, or want mine right away...another NOPE.

I've yet to have it get as far as asking for money..I usually shut it down WAY before that... LOL

why is it always...if it's someone from Africa is either a scammer wants your money or something else... I for instance I am not because they're know guys in Kenya... I am here because I want to date someone outside my race