I had some news... I had to just deal with this wk ...

generally I look at things logically...
and know the hurt is for a good cause ... so will get over it ...

not very many know about who I am or what problems are in this life ...


1- I try to help when I can ...

2 - I tend to shop where it will benefit others + for animals well being ...

3- when I am out I try and be credulous ...
and if in a food shopping line ... if others have a few things I tend to let them go ... now this is the second time someone has been rude ... and I try not to take it to heart ... just think they are like this and mean
but yesterday in limit line was moving slow and only two lines
... one lady had to much in the line ....was not saying a thing other nxt lady had her special dog with her and some of her products where not coming up the way they should ... so had to wait and just be patiece ... now I am nxt did not see the lady behind me had less items then me ... now if i normally see that ...I say go ahead of me ... even in what ever line I am in ...

well I mess my pin no up... because we where talking about dogs well this lady said to me behind me ... oh you have one of those cards ... you have know place to be ... like I was beneath her... and like I held up the line all this time ... so i said to her you should have more patience ... and wanted to lay into her ... she gave me another smart remark so I said lets see how slow I can do this again ... and boy I wanted to lay into her so bad ... I will admit ... when I get angry I warn people first becouse my cursing may get out of hand ...an generally I am not angry with you its the co. but yesterday I held my tung...

so I told people about this incident... and was very proud I did not use one curse word and had even wish her a happy new yr ...1 said they where disappointed in me lol both said they wish they where there with me when she started to degrade me ...

now of course I thought of this later ... but I should have pulled real close to the stores entrance and I could have and acted as if I was going to run her over and blow my horn to scare the crap out of her ... I did not do this ... but was a good thought ... and sometimes i think I want to be mean like others are ... but some said no... I should just stay nice like you are ... made me fill better for those wanting to take up for me ... but I handled it ...

Some people and their drama BS just need to be ignored. Not worth getting you all stressed up and your blood pressure through the roof just because they are azzholes.

loved reading this, lol, made my day here, you go girl!

Vent away Mystical... it helps us laugh later. Sounds like you handled it well ((((Hugs))))

I know he you feel because I am always tempted to lash out as well. I am trying to keep My in check and say something sarcastic instead like wishing them a wonderful day and hope everyone stays out of their way for the rest of the day.

I think you handled it well, mystical.

When in grocery line, a few people had also asked me if they could go ahead if I had a cartful and they only have one or two items. I always said sure go ahead. One random act of kindness, checked! so proud of me yay lol

Wishing you the best of the new year, mystical

way to go but sometimes people need to be put in their place like you i try to be nice and blow it off but only for so long a lot of people think they are better than you and have to run their mouth some people have it rough so they have to have to run their lip but to me life is what you make it

Sounds like you handled the problem. That's good!
Oftentimes people aren't that kind in certain situations.
I've learned how to hold my peace. But I don't Curse anyway.

I worked with a group of people today! Several said I did a good job.
Made me feel very helpful.

LOL, You gave this woman power over you, right?
You allowed her to disrupt your calm, right?
So much so, you're still upset about it.
How is this a good thing?

Personally, I would have shrugged, smiled and then ignored her.
But, that's me.