the mutual match should only show me pics of girls who meet my search requirements. why would i wanna see anyone else?

If someone outside of your search parameters gives you a YES or a MAYBE, they will show up on your MM picks to be rated, too.

I have my settings at 200 miles, so I know anyone who shows up in my MM options from farther away, has already rated me YES or MAYBE.

You are absolutely right,or they want a specific age.or they are in love with there new friend? I don't know it does not make any sence to me.

I agree and why don't they show who clicked yes to your profile and wants to meet you?

i think when they do click yes, that person shows up first.

i just clicked yes on ...someone...but now they are nowhere to be seen...not in mm????

Wish I could remember her handle....she could have been my next wife......oh well on to the next one

Hey I agree with you. If you don't know who clicked yes then how are you supposed to reply to them? Can someone help me here?

i think it should be just like hotornot.com.

you click yes or no. and if you click yes, it tells that person "hey, this guy wants to meet you." and they can click yes or no. if they click yes, it's a double match. easy.

listening admin?

That is how it works. If someone outside your search says yes or maybe, then you get email about them, but if you have not rated the ones in your search criteria, they will come up as well in mutual match. Once you have rated all in you area, your mutual matches will only email you if somebody else has clicked yes or maybe for you. Pretty simple.

I'm confused. The Mutual Match area says that 1 person wants to meet me, but it doesn't show who that person is and I did not receive an email.

Mutual match is anonymous until both parties say yes or maybe to each other. You will not know who has said yes to you until you both check yes or maybe to each other.

please show the five people who want to meet me instead of me wasting time .thanx..

Dragones is right. That's exactly how it works

I'll agree too
I've gotton the somebody wants to meet you and then even after I rated eveybody it still didn't say who had wanted to meet me. And what if it's somone without a pic? Maybe they ARE THE ONE. I twould seem they has to be an eaiser way. Personally though the alternitive is pay to join a site and then hope the right one comes along I've done that and had no better luck than here
Ohh another beef I think the site should withhold posting a profile until it's filled out Seeing so many name only no info profiles gets kinda annoying when you're tring to sort through say 30 pages Anyways hope all have a good holiday