If you are a loyal member of Mingle2.com, then you are probably a romantic, hoping to find Mr. or Ms. Right. The dating game is one filled with hope that the next dating connection will be lasting and meaningful. But, in the words of The Bard, “Love is blind, and lovers cannot see”. Although you want to be open to the new possibilities of romance when you go on that first date be watchful that your optimism doesn’t overshadow your …