how is it that i have 2300 potential matches, most of whom i left a message for....don't answer their emails for a few days?....silly me, i thought you gals were looking to go on a date ....or just chat to find out about the other person...they'll ask for more pictures or where i live or something about my work....i reply with an honest and lengthy description and don't hear from them for a week or sometimes never....can't you just say " i don't think we match " and move on....silly me, i thought you were interested.....oh well...