I agree that it's both sexes that use the children. I was never married to my daughter's father, we lived together for eight years. One day he decides he doesn't want to live with us. For four months he didn't say or do anything...then in March he filed with the courts false allegations..that I beat my daughter and drink every night. There are no records of any abuse. The GAL talked to him and he claims I'm sneaky and devious. First lawyer was a jerk and it cost me $1,500. Second lawyer is more but he's not putting up with the stuff from the other attorney. My daughter is caught in the middle of it and is forced to spend time with her dad every other weekend and she calls me crying. How can a person put their child through this? It tears at my heart.