as 2K said. evaluate it on the physical.

I've asked you this already, what do you have in common?
what ideals do you share?
what do you admire about him?
what are his flaws and what makes you like him in spite of that?

how do you know when you're in love?
what are his strong points?
what are his flaws? what makes you like him anyway when you look at the whole person.

I've read many of your topics. I think it's infatuation and obsessive.

I have many friends both male and female who greet me with a hug.
while I have love for them, I'm not in love with them.

Ask yourself "What do I appreciate about him?"
If the answers are primarily physical traits - his face, his hair, his body, the way he makes you physically feel - then that's lust, not love.
If the answers are primarily things like his emotional responses to things, his ability to hold a conversation, the way he makes you feel emotionally, his level of intellect and education, his attitudes about things you have in common (or, more important, his attitudes about things you disagree on), then that's probably love.

Absolutely nothing.
If a man is truly interested in a woman he will move heaven & Earth to be with her.
Mean while, put yourself first, live a little & say " next contestant "

I don't know you. But off the cuff I would say NO (to any woman). Men are hunters & like to persue. And may interpret it as you are chasing them.
So if it is more than sex you are after don't tell him. IMHO