Are you sure it's LOVE and not an uncontrolable disire for sex?

I sometimes come across as emotionaly distant or distracted.
But am I out of place to expect my signifant other to participate in
some of my distractions when I invite her to join
me in a social,business or recreational activity I was doing befor we
became a couple?

By the way any thoughts as how to approch the fact she avoids social and
or cultural activities that I belive are or should be of personal
interist to her even when I suggest them or volanteer to attend them
with her.