My Take:
Either it is a decent job or a business venture, it doesnt matter as long as

-it is legal
-it can supports his needs
-it does not hurt people (damaging effects)
-he is good with it
-he is content and happy doing it everyday

no matter how much he earns,
no matter how decent it is,
no matter how lucrative it is,
if he is not happy in his work
and his heart is not in it
then I too would be unhappy watching him
repeatedly doing it everyday.

"Jar Of Hearts"

I know I can't take one more step towards you
'Cause all that's waiting is regret
Don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

And I've learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

And it took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
'Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
Tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?

Who do you think you are?

Who do you think you are?

Wendy's Baconator
Wendy's Garden Fresh Salad
Wendy's Frosty

Real Steel

Hugh Jackman and Dakota Goyo

I just miss "keeping up with the Minglers" Song:

Meant to Live - Switchfoot

Fumbling his confidence
And wondering why the world has passed him by
Hoping that he's bent for more than arguments
And failed attempts to fly, fly

[Chorus]
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
Somewhere we live inside
Somewhere we live inside
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
Somewhere we live inside

Dreaming about Providence
And whether mice or men have second tries
Maybe we've been livin with our eyes half open
Maybe we're bent and broken, broken

[Chorus]

We want more than this world's got to offer
We want more than this world's got to offer
We want more than the wars of our fathers
And everything inside screams for second life, yeah

We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
We were meant to live for so much more
Have we lost ourselves?
We were meant to live
We were meant to live

Not-so jaded Minglers:


Way Back Into Love - Hugh Grant & Drew Barrymore


Verse 1]
(Drew Barrymore)
I've been living with a shadow overhead,
I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed,
I've been lonely for so long,
Trapped in the past,
I just can't seem to move on!

(Hugh Grant)
I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away,
Just in case I ever need 'em again someday,
I've been setting aside time,
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind!

[Chorus]
(Both)
All I wanna do is find a way back into love.
I can't make it through without a way back into love.
Ooo hooow

[Verse 2]
(Drew Barrymore)
I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine,
I've been searching but I just don't see the signs,
I know that it's out there,
There's gotta be something for my soul somewhere!

(Hugh Grant)
I've been looking for someone to shed some light,
Not somebody just to get me through the night,
I could use some direction,
And I'm open to your suggestions.

[Chorus]
(Both)
All I wanna do is find a way back into love.
I can't make it through without a way back into love.
And if I open my heart again,
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end!

[Middle-eight]
(Drew Barrymore)
There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

[Chorus]
(Both)
All I wanna do is find a way back into love,
I can't make it through without a way back into love,
And if I open my heart to you,
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do,
And if you help me to start again,
You know that I'll be there for you in the end!


A Child to a Parent:

Dance with my Father - Luther Vandross

Back when I was a child, before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high and dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me around ‘til I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure I was loved
If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
How I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way, I would run from her to him
He’d make me laugh just to comfort me
Then finally make me do just what my mama said
Later that night when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he would be gone from me
If I could steal one final glance, one final step, one final dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
‘Cause I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
Sometimes I’d listen outside her door
And I’d hear how my mother cried for him
I pray for her even more than me
I pray for her even more than me
I know I’m praying for much too much
But could you send back the only man she loved
I know you don’t do it usually
But dear Lord she’s dying
To dance with my father again
Every night I fall asleep and this is all I ever dream

A Son/ Daughter To A Father:

Leader of The Band - Dan fogelberg

An only child alone and wild, a cabinet maker's son
His hands were meant for different work
And his heart was known to none
He left his home and went his lone and solitary way
And he gave to me a gift I know I never can repay

A quiet man of music denied a simpler fate
He tried to be a soldier once, but his music wouldn't wait
He earned his love through discipline, a thundering velvet hand
His gentle means of sculpting souls took me years to understand

The leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old
But his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul
My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man
I'm just a living legacy to the leader of the band

My brother's lives were different for they heard another call
One went to Chicago and the other to St Paul
And I'm in Colorado when I'm not in some hotel
Living out this life I've chose and come to know so well

I thank you for the music and your stories of the road
I thank you for the freedom when it came my time to go
I thank you for the kindness and the times when you got tough
And papa, I don't think I said I love you near enough

The leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old
But his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul
My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man
I'm just a living legacy to the leader of the band
I am a living legacy to the leader of the band

A Bride To A Father:

Sing Me A song Again Daddy - Jose Mari Chan


Cheri:
Sing me a song again, Daddy
Sing me a happy verse.
Teach me those clever lines you sang
As you carried me on your shoulders.
Sing me that hymn that you so loudly
Sang in church with mom.
Sing it again to me and fill me
With all your words of wisdom.

Comforting words of love when I
Would get home from school in tears.
Somehow your songs have stayed within me
Down through all the years.
Once when my younger heart was broken
Your shoulder was there to cry on.
Sing me those songs I know will linger
Long after you have gone.

I am standing at the threshold
Of a chapter in my life
I am asking for your blessing
As I'm about to be the wife
Of a man I know who loves me
And I'm proud to be his bride.
Dad the time has come for me to leave your side.

So, sing me a song again, Daddy.
Sing me a lullaby.
Wrap me inside your arms, Daddy,
'Though this is not goodbye.
Your songs will live forever
In my heart. When times get rough
The ones I'll most remember
Are your songs of love.

Jose:

Your songs will live forever
In my heart. When times get rough

Cheri:

The ones I'll most remember
Are your songs of love

A Father to a Daughter:

Zoe Jane - staind

Well I want you to notice
To notice when I'm not around
To notice your eyes see straight through me
And speak to me without a sound

[Chorus]
I wanna hold you
Protect you from all of the things I've already endured
And I wanna show you
Show you all the things that this life has in
Store for you
And I'll always love you
The way that a father should love his daughter

When I woke up this morning
I cried as I walked to the door
I cried about how long I'll be away for
I cried about leaving you all alone

[Chorus]

Sweet Zoe Jane
Sweet Zoe Jane

So I wanted to say this
'Cause I wouldn't know where to begin
To explain to you what I have been through
To explain where your daddy has been

[Chorus]

Sweet Zoe Jane
Sweet Zoe Jane

A Child To A Parent:

Dance with my Father - Luther Vandross

Back when I was a child, before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high and dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me around ‘til I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure I was loved
If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
How I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way, I would run from her to him
He’d make me laugh just to comfort me
Then finally make me do just what my mama said
Later that night when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he would be gone from me
If I could steal one final glance, one final step, one final dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
‘Cause I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
Sometimes I’d listen outside her door
And I’d hear how my mother cried for him
I pray for her even more than me
I pray for her even more than me
I know I’m praying for much too much
But could you send back the only man she loved
I know you don’t do it usually
But dear Lord she’s dying
To dance with my father again
Every night I fall asleep and this is all I ever dream

Our Lives - The Calling
http://youtu.be/8jWmjfTAyqw

took me time to digest this:)

needed to get fresh air to check my own emotions
and my own perspectives:)

thus my quote of the day is:


Just because I liked something at one point in time doesn’t mean I’ll always like it, or that I have to go on liking it at all points in time as an unthinking act of loyalty to who I am as a person, based solely on who I was as a person. To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think. The only thing I am for sure is unsure, and this means I’m growing, and not stagnant or shrinking.

― Jarod Kintz

Or
Do white men like white women or black women?
or
Do black men like black women or white women?

Either way:Different answers to different individuals

It all comes down to preferences.
It all comes down to standards.
it all comes down to what makes you feel alive.
It all comes down to where your heart beats faster(in a good way).
It all comes down to what makes you a better person.

justsayin:)

Waited for you?4?

If I may be blunt:
That sounds a misplace stroke of ego or
it speaks a lot of the
kind of women who are waiting for you.

Either way, it contradicts to being
happy alone being single.

Just sayin

Welcome to Mingle by the way:)

Maybe your boss is really just considerate and a nice person.
He is a man.
2 1/2 yrs is quite long for a man to decide
and let you know if he is interested in you or not.

On dating a boss in particular:
Ethics-wise not good for you, your boss, & your other workmates.

Emotions will get in your way of being an effective and efficient employee.No matter how focus and objective you are.

Professionally -not a good career move.
Personally- a great risk after 2 1/2 yrs of having a stable job.

just sayin

I will drink to this

Best course of action is to wait and see, but never hope too much.

I like this very much for some reasons.
but what I have learn here in Mingle so far is
it is not them, it is always ourselves and how
we see things that would help us improve
ourselves and make us happy.
It is how we read, understand and interpret words
base on how we perceive things:)

Thus my quote of the day is:

You stop caring, you are jaded.
If you care too much it will ruin you.

I am a Sagittarian.
Base on the zodiac that means, I usually put my foot on my mouth.
That is a bullseye so far.
No matter how I want to say it as a compliment,
I ended up insulting that person hahaha.
Wrong choice of words I guess.

But that is as far as I will credit astrology.
It will be a stretch if I will say, I am a believer.
So, no I am not that interested in reading
Character traits base on zodiac:)

For me, Zodiac and Astrology would always
Just be a point of reference.
But I will find it unfair if I will judge a person
Base on the the positioning of the planets
When he/ she was born:)

For me,
It will always be the person’s words and
Actions and how he/she treated others.

To measure him/her base on how he/she
Treated me would be checking first of what
Is his/her motive. Tedious process.

So, astrology is good as a point of reference.
But I strongly believe that it is the person's
Decisions that what makes him/her who he/she is.

That is my long way of saying , I respect astrology
but not to the point of seeing people base on it:)

Welcome to Mingle:)

Remember there are always people who will always mistake you as someone else in the crowd and probably will confuse you as someone else, always every time someone will come in and sounds like you. You cannot help them. Uncontrollable.

What is important, is to interact with people who will never mistake you as
someone else, and learn well from them.

- Jane