I happen to be in a relationship/friendship that I am the fortunate one being loved. This man is gentle and kind and absolutley insane in love with me. After 6 months I just don't feel the same. He is so nice but has absolutley no commomn sence and has a victum mentality that I cannot handle. I have being very honest with him and he just keeps on pursueing and today he said he could see us in a permanent relationship. My advice to him after being brutle honest was "enjoy me while you can" but know that I do not feel the same and it is a risk you are taking. I will never feel the same. So what I'm saying is "enjoy them while you can". Except the truth and if you can't deal with it then leave.