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Tue 09/15/15 01:56 PM
The different photos look like different people. The photo of the red dress I would rate 0. All that extra weight is a real 0. On the hand, other photos indicate that perhaps without all the weight there is an actually 10 there.

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Mon 09/14/15 03:53 PM
Edited by RealNiceGuy2 on Mon 09/14/15 04:15 PM
What you look like now is not what you will look like later. Both males and females can look one way as they go through their teen years, then later as adults be stunningly handsome or beautiful. In fact, typically it is true for most people that they get very much better looking. Sometimes teen photos are posted of adult celebrities, and you would never think it was the same person. Yes, you are overweight, not an usual thing to happen. But when you mature and you lose the weight, it appears you will be very pretty. The best thing you can do now for your self-esteem and future health is to lose the weight. Don't be mislead by men that say they like you with the extra weight. Only a handful of men think like that, and the rest like average. And "average" does not mean skinny or thin! Those are very unattractive and no men like that!! Don't give up on yourself and accept the weight. You may be beautiful inside, but why not be beautiful outside too?! There is a beauty there waiting to be revealed! You will feel better about yourself; you will have boys interested in you; and equally important you will be setting yourself up to live your life healthier! There is nothing healthy in being overweight. Lose weight with the guidance of an attentive and knowledgeable adult, either a family member or professional. Good luck!