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Wed 12/30/15 03:46 AM
Stay and listen carefully as she shares all of her secrets over a glass of wine.

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Wed 12/30/15 03:40 AM
Stay, I had the pizza last night though, sorry guys, had it all to myself too! (Well Elmo had the crusts)

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Wed 12/30/15 03:37 AM
Not on purpose

Have you ever spent an hour on the phone to someone then thought "why on earth did I do that?"

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Wed 12/30/15 03:22 AM
Thanks, went for the No Filter, No Makeup, No Hairstyle, No Sense! Look this time!

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Wed 12/30/15 03:14 AM

Never mind Em
He might look at it later. Keep your fingers cross and say please please please.

rofl rofl rofl

I have a secret


It's OK, I'm over it already biggrin

We all have secrets!

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Wed 12/30/15 03:08 AM

on of the sexy chicks whose profile i just vieweddrool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool drool


Ran to check my "Who viewed me" list
{hangs head in disappointment}

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Wed 12/30/15 03:01 AM

Listen, dude, Let me tell you like it really is. Don't expect anything great or grand. It's not going to happen. I've been on dating sites off and on for close to ten years. I've seen a lot.

The first thing you need to know, Dating sites do not cater to men at all. Dating sites are a woman's playground. The only chance you have of getting anywhere is by setting yourself apart from the rest. Women on dating sites get bunches of messages every day. If you want a woman to single you out from the rest, then you have to make yourself stand out.

And that is in everything. How you write. How you dress. How you present yourself in your profile, Your pictures. Everything. Be a little picky. Be respectful. No matter if you get ignored. Which is what's going to happen 98% of the time. If you are a man on a dating site, you have to have a tough skin. You can't let it get to you. Take your time. Pick wisely.


I agree with all of the above. With my location I wouldn't say I get 'bunches of messages every day' but there were plenty before I set my filters. I would also encourage people to not let filters put you off. If you fall inside the ranges then be encouraged, you are already half way there with regards what she is looking for. Plus the fact that there are filters in place goes some way to proving she is real.

Also on another note- telling a woman she is the only one her age for miles around is not a compliment. I had one guy tell me that, my response, thanks a lot, so you didn't actually choose me, you contacted me out of desperation? What about the other guys who contacted me, was it the same?
Basically, I don't care what my competition is, if I chat to you, it's because I like the look of your profile, not because I want to represent my gender and age group in my area.

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Tue 12/29/15 02:33 PM
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Tue 12/29/15 02:31 PM
:banana: BANANA :banana:

Cola bottles or Giant strawberries?

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Tue 12/29/15 02:21 PM


Or keep looking at the same person until they accuse you of being a stalker oops

Not the best idea, but it got the conversation started! :laughing:


OMG, that is bad rofl


We are friends now! biggrin

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Tue 12/29/15 12:36 PM
Once when I was 7. Goofy got jealous though!

Have you ever met your hero?

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Tue 12/29/15 12:25 PM
Tenacity

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Tue 12/29/15 12:23 PM
Tomorrow never comes

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Tue 12/29/15 12:22 PM
Red for beef, white for chicken!

Mayo or Salad Cream?

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Tue 12/29/15 12:21 PM
Dragon

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Tue 12/29/15 12:19 PM
Ew, NO!

Have you ever sat in a bath of beans?

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Tue 12/29/15 12:18 PM
Is it not?!

Joe needs chained up during a full moon as he isn't able to control his animal instincts.

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Tue 12/29/15 12:14 PM
Yes! Too many times I care to think of.

Have you ever wished you hadn't started a conversation with somebody (yeah, same one as last time!)

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Tue 12/29/15 12:07 PM
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Tue 12/29/15 12:04 PM
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