I am not angry Sivansaji. I realĺy think most Indian men have good intentions. I am sure the women in India feel very loved and flattered when the Indian men express affection in such an intense way . There is nothing wrong with your culture. It is just important to understand that women from other cultures may not appreciate such intense affection from someone they just met.

Ok . So Im going to be brutally honest. There are a lot of East Indians in my country and I have had great experiences with them, but I did experience challenges with the men I met from India online.

The ones I met , literally fell in love after one conversation and they also needed me to fall in love just as quickly, and they were highly offended when I didnt.

They became anxious if I didnt respond 10 seconds after they asked a question ,and were very demanding of my time in general.

I never experienced that from the Indian men in my country so it made me think that maybe I just dont relate to the relationship culture of India . It makes me feel trapped and smothered.

I am saying this with the understanding that there are probably thousands of men from India who are not like that , but I have only met the clingy ones unfortunately .

Clingy behavior is unattractive to me in any gender, race or nationality.