My pics will have to be taken a public restroom, because I don't have a full length mirror at home and no one else who can take a pic of me that isn't blurry.

I think it's plain selfishness. They want what they want when they want it. It may be that there are some who either don't want to work on their marriage or don't know how to be in a real relationship with another person. A marriage is more than sex, it takes real communication and problem solving to keep a marriage strong, and for some they seem to have no concern to what their partner may feel.

When I tell men who have contacted me that I won't date a married man, they try to assure me that the either the wife is cheating too, or that the wife knows. I refuse to get involved in a marriage. Dealing with one person is bad enough, but to get into a triangle, is just crazy.