It really helps to go to places where you're around alot of people like a walmart in your free time, when I'm lonely, I usually go grocery shopping or something like that, seeing little kids goofing around, and just so many people can make you feel less alone. But its only a temporary thing, the farther away you get in time, from whatever hurt you, the easier it will get, trust me, from one indian to another, just hang on somehow and try to laugh at yourself if you can, each month will be easier. p.s. (also, always doing something really helps too, if you let your mind wander, it'll just go back to her) Good luck bhai ji