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Fri 04/06/12 11:17 AM

I think lonely people are actually selfish.It is their tendency to keep things up to themself only,to not share anything with others.

They keep thinking about themself only & hence becomes lonely.

They are usually narrowmided & touchy.

They have many expectation from others ,like somebody shall love them all the time,shall ask them repeatedly,why they are not happy...

Don't loneliness reflect selfishness really??




ummm,,,no

loneliness reflects to mean inability to feel connected to others

not necessarily an unwillingness to,,,,,

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Fri 04/06/12 11:13 AM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 04/06/12 11:14 AM

Its not racist because you are not thinking you are superior. I am not talking a skill I am talking as a human. That is the definition of racism.



ANY Assumption of superiority, as a human, or in a skill

is racist , if it is based only on the knowledge of ones race,,,


,,,thats why I said it depends upon how someone defines racism,,thats how I Define it

so it would be hard for ME to believe that most americans are not racist on some level..


'ism',,(belief system)

race (race)

a RACE BASED belief system,,,racism

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Fri 04/06/12 11:12 AM




this is not proof of absence of racism

any more than killing some 'suspicious' black kid is proof of racism


the racism question is fairly insignificant in the shooting death of an unarmed 17 year old


interesting though, that in a fight involving two people, where one was injured,,,,it seemed clearer that the one who did the injuring was responsible

I think most people want someone held similarly responsible in this teenagers death,,,


So since I know martial arts if someone attacks me but I injure them then i am responsible?




it would be up to a jury,,,,


Really you believe that or are you just arguing? So a criminal trying to mug me and i am responsible for any injuries he gets? That is what you believe? Seriously where is personal responsibility.



I for some reason was reading this incorrectly, thinking about a case happening inside a home

if it is proven that someone was mugging you, self defense would probably be legal justification to your harming them

IF it is a given that someone has initiated an attack , than harm to them in the form of defending yourself would often fall under self defense,,,,except in those places where a 'reasonable' force rule is applied

for instance, if someone was in your home crawling OUT your window with some stuff, and you came home and shot them on their way out,,,that would probably not be justified as 'reasonable' force in all states,,,

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Fri 04/06/12 11:08 AM





How do you prove someone isn't racist?what



ITs hard to prove negatives,,,,

I would have a hard time believing most people in america are not racist on some level,,,either through stereotypes based in race or prejudice behavior or assumption based in race,,,,




Stereotypes are not racism. Believing one is better than someone else because of race is racism.



stereotypes are racism, if they attribute a characteristic or trait or weakness or strength to one race or another,,,,,

thats where it starts,,IF I believe white people cant dance, by extension, ,that causes me to believe I must be a better dancer than white people

yet dancing is not a RACIAL skill, it is acquired from environment,,,


Again its not racism. Its a generalization. If you think you are a better dancer than white people that isn't racist



on what would I base my skill against ALL White people then?

what keeps it from being a racist assumption?

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Fri 04/06/12 11:04 AM




this is not proof of absence of racism

any more than killing some 'suspicious' black kid is proof of racism


the racism question is fairly insignificant in the shooting death of an unarmed 17 year old


interesting though, that in a fight involving two people, where one was injured,,,,it seemed clearer that the one who did the injuring was responsible

I think most people want someone held similarly responsible in this teenagers death,,,


So since I know martial arts if someone attacks me but I injure them then i am responsible?




it would be up to a jury,,,,


Really you believe that or are you just arguing? So a criminal trying to mug me and i am responsible for any injuries he gets? That is what you believe? Seriously where is personal responsibility.



thats not what I 'believe' , thats the laws

if the perp died, the family could sue you for wrongful death
you could use a defense of self defense

and a jury would decide,,,

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Fri 04/06/12 11:01 AM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 04/06/12 11:02 AM



How do you prove someone isn't racist?what



ITs hard to prove negatives,,,,

I would have a hard time believing most people in america are not racist on some level,,,either through stereotypes based in race or prejudice behavior or assumption based in race,,,,




Stereotypes are not racism. Believing one is better than someone else because of race is racism.



stereotypes are racism, if they attribute a characteristic or trait or weakness or strength to one race or another,,,,,

thats where it starts,,IF I believe white people cant dance, by extension, ,that causes me to believe I must be a better dancer than white people

yet dancing is not a RACIAL skill, it is acquired from environment,,,

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Fri 04/06/12 10:58 AM
IM surprised by the lawyers statement

employment regulations and laws are two seperate things

you dont have to break 'laws' for an employer to terminate you,,,,

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Fri 04/06/12 10:54 AM

How do you prove someone isn't racist?what



ITs hard to prove negatives,,,,

I would have a hard time believing most people in america are not racist on some level,,,either through stereotypes based in race or prejudice behavior or assumption based in race,,,,



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Fri 04/06/12 10:53 AM


this is not proof of absence of racism

any more than killing some 'suspicious' black kid is proof of racism


the racism question is fairly insignificant in the shooting death of an unarmed 17 year old


interesting though, that in a fight involving two people, where one was injured,,,,it seemed clearer that the one who did the injuring was responsible

I think most people want someone held similarly responsible in this teenagers death,,,


So since I know martial arts if someone attacks me but I injure them then i am responsible?




it would be up to a jury,,,,

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Thu 04/05/12 11:33 PM

Again it is not you or I that can say if this was a young man or a boy...

However in his fathers eyes he was mature enough to walk to the store in the dark.

So I am inclined to believe he was a young man...

His Father evidently thought so also.



or, he thought the neighborhood was 'safe' enough with its neighborhood watch that his kid could be safe,,,,,,

my son's been walking to the store since a young age, not because I considered him a young man, but because I thought he was mature enough to know how to look both ways and I thought we were in a 'safe' area,,,,


matters not though, what label he is given, the law would not permit him to own a gun and would consider him a minor

and as an unarmed minor without a weapon, being shot by an adult with one has probably tugged at many heartstrings of parents like myself,,,

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Thu 04/05/12 11:25 PM

At Seventeen I was standing upon the borders of South and North Korea defending the Right of an ally of my Nation to be free.

Old enough to work. Old enough to make choices with his father eyes upon him. Old enough to be upon the cusp of choice to college. Young though he was... Still was he a man and not a child.




everyone is not the same, of course

some young people are emancipated, because of their maturity. If you were in a war at 17, you may have been such a mature young person. No sign this boy was quite there yet.



my boy has been old enough to work since 16 but not old enough to be providing for himself. HE has been old enough to make choices since five, with supervision. He went away to school for the first time at 18.


as far as Treyvon, at seventeen, he was eating skittles and a pop and attending high school.

AS a mom of a similar boy,, I consider him a child., at best a young man. But not similarly an adult like the one who took his life and was married with a home and a job and a spouse and financial obligations.



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Thu 04/05/12 10:15 PM

When it's white on black the howler Panther screans and jumps up and down.
What do they howl when it's negro on negro violence.
Nothing. They don't hoot, howl or make a fuss.
It is all about hating on the white man/woman.



a good start would be ACKNOWLEDGING This as a crime

thats one BIG Difference drawing the attention to this case as opposed to all that other 'negro on negro' violence,, where hte deceased attacker is not merely walking free and being given excuses by the police who speak to their surviving family members,,,

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Thu 04/05/12 10:12 PM



With all the media convicting the guy, he won't get a fair trial.

Media should be accused of swaying a jury.


He is screwed. He has already been tried and convicted in the court of public opinion thanks to two of the biggest racists in America and the rest of the world, Jesse Jackson Senior and Al Sharpton.

Yes...

And so also has the Young Man been tried by the likes of yellow journlism and the racists on the other side.

don't you get it.

The young man died precisely because of that... (no matter the law or the rights of it)... Simply because of the need to go armed INSIDE one of our own villages. (a place where we should all be safe and have no need to thump our chests).

Yet when I hear a discussion of this case most of the comments are directed at the color of the skins of the two that were most severely effected by it.

Where are your hearts? With out them in humble mode no justice will every be pure.



I think its heightened because of one being an unarmed child as well,,,that really is what is pulling at the heartstrings of moms like me who are raising sons

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Thu 04/05/12 10:11 PM



It appears that they both acted "stupidly".

Next case. smile2



I dont think thats necessarily true.

I think the kid at least TRIED to avoid a confrontation with the adult,,,,

first by changing directions

second by RUNNING AWAY


if the adult continued to pursue and confront the kid after that, I cant call the kid stupid for defending himself,,,


wow! you were there?



no, its recorded on the 911 call Zimmerman made


'hes coming back this way'

and then

'hes running'



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Thu 04/05/12 12:27 PM



The whole racism thing is out of control. Certain people in certain groups have that dog worn so thin you see through it. Many mistake ones prejudice for racism and truthfully there isn't one person on here who doesn't harbor some form of prejudice.



racism is prejudice based in race

race segregation and prejudice is INGRAINED in the countrys very founding,, it has not disappeared and people may sometimes see it when it isnt there,, but its hard to blame them when being honest about how often it HAS been there throughout american history, ,and how often it still is,,,,

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Thu 04/05/12 12:24 PM

It appears that they both acted "stupidly".

Next case. smile2



I dont think thats necessarily true.

I think the kid at least TRIED to avoid a confrontation with the adult,,,,

first by changing directions

second by RUNNING AWAY


if the adult continued to pursue and confront the kid after that, I cant call the kid stupid for defending himself,,,

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Wed 04/04/12 11:20 PM
I dont think that all news is scripted, I also dont think most news programs allow people to just fly the cuff once the camera is on (and for good reason).

There are of course teleprompters and writers and often times in news a basic AP story, for instance, is just reiterated across several affiliates. You can find the same thing in print news.


But this does still pose the question of how well RESEARCHED stories are and causes many people to believe the information is that much more valid because of how many sources repeat it.

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Wed 04/04/12 11:16 PM

The race card is really tattered and as worn out as an old joke.



its often misplayed, but is also often very discriptive of a system that CREATED and Introduced the card in the first place,,,

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Wed 04/04/12 11:14 PM
Invictus,,,,I just dont think its ever been a 'United' states, from slavery, to jim crow, to segregation, to immigration,,,,it has never been as close to ideal as people claim when they start whinging about politics,,,IMHO


Film,,,,I think thats what the supreme court is for


Brava, I can tell, but it still doesnt seem to make sense in practice the way it does in text,,,,

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Wed 04/04/12 11:05 PM
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