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Tue 03/13/12 12:54 PM
my point is same sex marriage is not LEGALLY recognized although it is not explicitly 'illegal'

plenty of things I dont wish the government to validate/ support /promote/ encourage through legal recognition, although I also dont want those things to be explicitly 'illegal'

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Tue 03/13/12 12:52 PM

Had to sign the papers for my dad to be taken off life support. Cancer had eaten him up, all he had left was pain. He lived on for a day or two and passed away quietly in his sleep. He had written a directive that he didnt want to be kept alive by artificial means. He felt that man has a warped way of trying to counter act what G-D has ordained. It was hard for me because I didnt want to let go, but realized how selfish it was for me to prolong his suffering.
Uriel
Itzhak HaLevi Mar 18, 1921 to Mar 14, 1990


I empathize with this. Life support, to me, suggests a life is already being artificially prolonged that would have naturally ceased if left alone. Your decision not to prolong the inevitable is something I certainly support, as opposed to ending the pain someone is still 'living' with

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Tue 03/13/12 12:51 PM

I think you should read my post again. I didnt say they should be 'illegal'

I just said it shouldnt be made 'legal'
Word games. Any thing not made specifically illegal is legal by definition.




great, than homosexual marriage is 'already legal' because nothing says its against the law


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Tue 03/13/12 12:49 PM


seems as if its already in the US Code,,,,,



No congress just passed this law and Obama signed it into law the other day.
Now if the government doesn't want you protesting somewhere you. An be arrested and charged with a felony



according to the link provided , this is a REVISION to an already existing US CODE (hence, the US in front of the name)

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Tue 03/13/12 12:42 PM


And in comes the race card.......right on cue.

LMAO


You knew it was coming.... and they call us ignorant! laugh

Those that use it are always the first to throw stones laugh

Don't think the article said a thing about race or even implied it.

If I were to talk about selling us out to the bankers, destroying the constitution, inflating our dollar, destroying the economy, forcing individual mandates, unconstitutional wars, wrongful imprisionment of US citizens without due process, even executing them, or just plain deceitfulness and lies.... somehow that would make me a racist?..... who'd of thunk it?



pick a president..lol

all could be argued to have done any or all of those things,, although no president really controls any of those things,,,

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Tue 03/13/12 12:41 PM

Since when is breaking news on youtube?



lol. my thoughts exactly

but youtube is a 'news source' for many people,,,apparently..lol

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Tue 03/13/12 12:40 PM

Just wondering, which is better; same race or inter racial dating?



neither, which is evident by the beautiful lives both create

I have one child from a father who is of the same race and one from a father of a different race, and both are amazing and beautiful creations.

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Tue 03/13/12 07:46 AM


"A guy wants to marry a guy, *shrug* so what, their choice.
A girl wants to marry a horse, *shrug* so what, her choice.
This guy wants to be a girl, again, who cares.."


I also find these things to be 'not ok'

I cant force my beliefs on anyone but in a forum, I can give an opinion when asked, and mine is that life is too precious to take for granted when we are in 'pain'

if we wish to end our lives, that is of course our decision

however, I dont wish to see it 'legalized' because to me thats validating a choice that if government truly stays out of shouldnt be validated by that same government

I also dont wish to see it more admirable and accessible and 'normal' for people to 'give up' on their lifes prematurely,,,


Marking them as "acceptable" to your own morals/beliefs is NOT a legitimate reason as to why they should be outlawed/illegal.

Think about it for a second.

When a gay couple marries, does someone else die/suffer from such?
When a "boy" turns into a "girl" does someone else die/suffer?

Granted, these situations may cause "emotional" distress, but at the same time, is this not the "pain" you speak of as well?

So, when a person chooses "death" over "life" does someone else die/suffer? This, again of course, is outside emotionally.

They are all but life style choices that you, as an individual, should have the "right" to choose to partake in, or walk away from; but ultimately, how is it anyone's right to decide or judge another person's choices?

So, yes, I understand you are "against" the idea; but because you are, I am, and perhaps six others on Mingle, there may just be a few who are for it.

Six to two odds, in retro, would mean that our "morals" outweigh theirs making them "lesser".

I mean, isn't this a similar concept in which our nation was actually founded on? Rights, liberties, freedoms.

You have the "right" to "live".
So, why is the idea of having the "right" to "die" so taboo?

I mean, mistake me if I'm wrong, but I don't even think it's illegal (anymore) to "attempt" suicide. Granted, if you survive and aren't brain dead, paralyzed, etc; you are "forced" to receive psychiatric assistance; but it still isn't illegal.

So, ultimately, which is better?

Having people leaping off of random buildings and splattering themselves all over your sidewalk ..or..

..doing it quietly, peacefully, away from the public?

I doubt your kids would be quite as traumatized, imo, since it wouldn't be "broad casted" on the news and in the media.

..and hey, another bonus, cause now you opened up a new job market.

That's like a win-win-win situation. :P

Better than...

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I think you should read my post again. I didnt say they should be 'illegal'

I just said it shouldnt be made 'legal'


there are many personal decisions we make in our lives that the government stays out of,,,they arent illegal,,but they arent exactly LEGAL issues to begin with

they cant decide if I brush my teeth or not, but there is no actual LAW regarding brushing my teeth

its not ILLEGAL,, but not explicitly LEGAL either,, its just personal

I do think it should be illegal for a non medical professional to administer lethal drugs though

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Tue 03/13/12 07:44 AM
seems as if its already in the US Code,,,,,


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Tue 03/13/12 07:40 AM

i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? :banana: waving :thumbsup:



I think it looks kind of tacky, just like people wearing their pants hanging off their behinds or their dresses so short or pants so TIGHT you can see their butt cheeks when they sit or bend

but, thats still a personal choice so I tend not to go places where they may be dressed like that,,,and if I run across it I focus on something else,,,

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Tue 03/13/12 07:40 AM

i Just curious on everyones opinion :) should heavy set people wear tight clothes or lose? what do you all think? :banana: waving :thumbsup:



I think it looks kind of tacky, just like people wearing their pants hanging off their behinds or their dresses so short or pants so TIGHT you can see their butt cheeks when they sit or bend

but, thats still a personal choice so I tend not to go places where they may be dressed like that,,,and if I run across it I focus on something else,,,

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Tue 03/13/12 07:25 AM

Well thats what happens when one person who believes that everything was created over 6,000 years ago in 6 days is around a bunch of people who believe it took billions of years and water.He tried to convert the unconvertable.



did the op say thats what he believed,,, just curious,,,

Im christian and believe in intelligent design and I dont profess to know how old the earth is, let alone believe it is thousands or billions of years old

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Tue 03/13/12 07:23 AM

If you need ID to register to vote then what's the problem with showing ID when you vote?
If one person. Casts an illegal vote that takes away one persons legitimate vote. So until you can prove that there is NO voter fraud ID's should be required to vote.



faulty logic, since pollsters arent professional id verifiers

and ids can also be faked,,,,there is no absolute cure for fraud, and its really not the major issue that its made out to be considering how few americans with the legal RIGHT to vote dont participate anyhow,,,

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Mon 03/12/12 11:40 PM
ty

its my favorite,,,

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Mon 03/12/12 11:24 PM
Edited by msharmony on Mon 03/12/12 11:24 PM
three , a pair of tennis shoes and a pair of basic black flats that go with everything else,,,and a pair of heels just in case I hit the lotto and have a nice night out on the town someday

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Mon 03/12/12 11:22 PM
something missing?

" Drake found that another software program named ThinThread had already met the core requirements of a federal acquisition regulation that governed the proposed system at a sliver of the cost, all while protecting American civil liberties at the code level. The NSA leadership, however, had already bet their careers on Trailblazer. So Drake blew the whistle, first to Congress, then to the Department of Defense Inspector General's Office, and finally, and fatefully, to Gorman. "


blew the whistle on what? that NSA was choosing one program over another? who authorizes spending for NSA? what was there to blow a whistle about?

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Mon 03/12/12 11:18 PM
well, if I said people who bare things must want them to be looked at,,,it may seem sexist

so I will just answer personally, I have been to strip bars and complimented the women, but not usually as directly as to mention body parts more like complimenting how they carry themself or perform,,,etc,,,

at a topless beach? I probably wouldnt mention much because there would be too much to look at for anything to really stand out,,,

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Mon 03/12/12 11:15 PM
Sadly,

it is hard to prove that his belief was the reason he was 'fired'

there are a whole slew of legitimate 'reasons' mentioned in the op and with it being an employers world , they can claim anyone of them to avoid a wrongful termination conviction

words like

harassment and 'conflict' with others

and the fact that he received a 'warning' also stacks the deck against him,,,,


.,,he has to start over like the rest of us struggling folks of age,,it sucks, but he is in good company and maybe he has networked with enough people to give him that upper hand in finding something quickly

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Mon 03/12/12 11:10 PM
a woman = an adult female
a man = an adult male

a REAL adult is summed up in the poem 'If' by Rudyard Kipling


but in a nutshell, its a responsible, self accountable, respectable and respectful person (in my opinion)

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Mon 03/12/12 11:07 PM


for me , it works, because birth, life, pain, and death are natural to existing


Yes, but pain can be medicated.
Pain can be overcome.
..but what about when it cannot?
I speak not of broken hearts or broken bones either.


and, for me, life (Even life in pain) has potential and is therefore precious

too precious to 'snuff' out with assisted suicide,,, in my opinion


Admirable, however, that is YOUR belief.
Why does everyone always have to force their beliefs on everyone else? (Not aimed at you, in general.)

A guy wants to marry a guy, *shrug* so what, their choice.
A girl wants to marry a horse, *shrug* so what, her choice.
This guy wants to be a girl, again, who cares..

..but suddenly, this guy just doesn't want to "exist" anymore.
Now we have a problem? o.O


if someone is too physically incapable to take their own pills, ID say they must be on some type of support and they would therefore not apply

but if people wish to die, they can try to do it themself, and if they are successful,,,,no worries for them...


If they are not successful, they are branded.
They are forced into the "system".
Endure medications, treatments, and force fed pills.

..are they worse than you or I?
If so, why? Just because they don't hold the same values/morals as you?

God says, "Judge not less ye be judged."
Atheists say, "Don't judge me, it's my choice not to believe."

So, why/where do we draw the line of what you are and are not allowed to believe in? Who are any of us to state what is right and wrong for each and every person?


it shouldnt be on another person to end an existence (otherwise functioning body)


It wouldn't be "on" them.
It's the patients choice.
Doctors, they can be pretty heartless, since in their profession they have to be.. You never can predict life, let alone death.

..but if you wish to choice your own way out..

Why is that such a sin?



"A guy wants to marry a guy, *shrug* so what, their choice.
A girl wants to marry a horse, *shrug* so what, her choice.
This guy wants to be a girl, again, who cares.."


I also find these things to be 'not ok'

I cant force my beliefs on anyone but in a forum, I can give an opinion when asked, and mine is that life is too precious to take for granted when we are in 'pain'

if we wish to end our lives, that is of course our decision

however, I dont wish to see it 'legalized' because to me thats validating a choice that if government truly stays out of shouldnt be validated by that same government

I also dont wish to see it more admirable and accessible and 'normal' for people to 'give up' on their lifes prematurely,,,

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