Greeneville here

leather

carpet or wood flooring

oops, I think we posted at the same time...

steak

coffee or tea?

white

coffee or tea?

wow, how'd that happen? Didn't think the first one posted...guess I was wrong! lol Sorry about that, people.

If it were me, I'd ask him to slow down. I've found that relationships that go too fast...don't last.

JMO

If it were me...I'd ask him to slow down and give me some time to get to know him better. Sometimes when things go too fast...they don't last. Been there, done that.

If it were me...I'd ask him to slow down and give me some time to get to know him better. Sometimes when things go too fast...they don't last. Been there, done that.

teak

I'm in Greeneville, about an hour northeast of Knoxville

Yes! I would call him, if I were interested in getting to know him
better. But when, would depend on the time...if I couldn't get away
from what I was doing at the moment, I'd wait for a better time when I
could devote all my attention to him. I don't think I'd wait anymore
than a day or 2, especially if I were interested.

Thank you everyone...for all your opinions. I think I'm going to just
back off from this guy...if he says that his marriage is dead...then why
are they still living together? Mine is dead...but we are NOT living
together...I don't think I want to deal with all this nor wait for
however long it takes him to leave...if he's ever even going to leave.

You all have made up my mind! Thank you, again!!! You are all great!

Oh, and sorry for the misleading question in the beginning.

Like Passion said...there's no formula...it's just in your heart and go
with the flow...soooo, you've been wrong before..but you're young and
that's how we learn...I say ... take a chance!

Iam4u...it only takes a year for a divorce IF there isn't property or
other issues to deal with...but we have a big estate and children
involved ... and issues to resolve...and where and when things are given
and ... well...a complicated divorce isn't as easy as you may
think...especially if there are inheritence and children involved...and
in our case...not only children, but grandchildren...so it takes a
little longer. We've had to go thru lawyers ...back & forth...to try to
get things resolved...it's almost there! And when it is...I'll be one
happy lady!! Yes, I admitt, a marriage is a contract of 2 people that
USED to love one another...but when that is over....it's over...no piece
of paper is going to make a difference...except in court...to sue one
another or whatever...when it's over...it's over...period! And that's
where I'm at now...like I said..it's only the formalities that is
holding this divorce up.

So far he has been....but it's only been 3 weeks...so...I'm wondering if
I should let this happen....I soooo don't want to go thru what I went
thru before!

Unsure...you're right...AGAIN! lol, my marriage is done...and for 3
years it's been done...my ex, as I call him, is living with his
girlfriend in another state...I haven't seen him in over 2 years....so
there's no way in the world that our marriage will ever have a
chance...just waiting on formalities for the divorce to be final. I have
custody of my 10 year old grandson and live on my horse ranch.

Being said that...there are always exceptions to every rule...
that's my story & I'm stickin' to it!! lol

So, hence the profile. Now that I've defended myself...my question is
about a man that I feel an attraction to that is married...but living in
the same circumstance as I did....so he says...one can never tell whats
real behind the computer. I would love to believe everything this man
has said...but past EXperiences won't let me.

Unsure....I feel that my marriage is dead...totally, hence the
seperation for so long...plus, he lives in another state. Yes, I feel
I'm ready to start dating..and I have been dating for sometime. I guess
I'm too sympathetic to the guy who's married, but lost that passion,
because I was in the same boat. I know the feeling of being lonely ...
even when you're married. On the other hand...I may be too old to get
married again, but I still want to be happy with just one person.

Sorry...I want to continue...but I've got to get out to the
horses...I'll be back later.

yes dear, I'm married...but I've been seperated for almost 3 years...and
no, I'm not talking about myself.

Awhhh, I'm so sorry...maybe you can find your one & only here!!

Yes, Unsure....you're right...and...I can't tell if he's just a very
lonely guy looking for a real relationship as he says...or if he's just
a player, cheater or whatever. Already I feel the stress of this.