I'm new to this Mingle thing but I want to answer your question. Some turn ons for me are: a man who has some aggression, who is confident, is bold and tells me the truth instead of what I want to hear. A man who can put me in my place when need be. All that other good stuff as well family oriented, hard worker, intelligent, someone who challenges me. Physically: I like a man who is physically fit. I love when a man wears jewelry for example a watch or a ring. A great smelling Cologne is good too. Facial hair. Dresses nice. I'm a suit girl but I also love when a man is wearing nothing but sweats and a shirt. He's got to be clean. Turn offs: Needy men, men with baggage.

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