I, personally, get attached when sex comes into it. I also think there should be some feelings involved, which may not be present in the beginning. Lastly, I want to make sure it is him and not my hormones doing the attracting. To each his own though, just be safe and do what you feel is right for you..

it has always amazed me to find the man that gets treated like crap and yet he stays with the women who is doing it to him...instead of going for the one who would love him...men and women both have those who are the doormats and those who are the abuser...But on that note...there are men and women who just want to hear that they are special, nice looking, needed, and loved...it isnt complicated if you find someone who is not totally into themselves and really want to find love...keep the faith and keep looking...she is out there..and dont worry about treating her like gold...treat her like she is "your" one of a kind...Good luck