I had this conversation bfore with my friend,he asked a question what if we wait after i do to hav sex but after married we dissapointed bcos it not worth let say the wife is mean has bad attitudes n there is a girl that not wait until i do to have sex but she is a good girl?in my country indonesian we use married as an excuse to hav sex after we taste it then no light on again then divorce mostly like that so his opion is true n real..for christian we believe that God created this earth n human so i said to my friend,"i believe that He is God n i also believe that there are many men out there who wait to have sex until we say i do,men that has good manner n also good in sex total packet as christian