I am a 20 year old man who will be 21 in January and I am on a few dating sites and the only ones I am getting flirts from is other guys, normally if I did not do anything on the site I would not mind but I have sent message after message to women anywhere from less than a mile to 100 miles away, and after all of the messages I have sent I have gotten back about 5 "friend" messages, meaning they are not interested in me but are nice enough not to say it to my face, also I see that in the sent messages some just read my message and that really just bugs me, not as much as the ones who read and delete, but still I am annoyed about it, I just want to know simply this why doesn't really anyone be honest on here? I ask how they are and how was their day and I in all my profiles I say that I am over loving, kind, and caring, and yet no one who wants that wants to even talk to me so please someone tell me what is wrong here?