Well, I had an honest and open relationship in the past, except my other half didn't follow the rules. He left out the honest part... That didn't last long...

Yeah tats are hot if done right, I am really not into the ones on the faces and such, kinda limits the job fields (unfortunately), but it does. I have several and for those of you who don't like it, who cares, too many people in the world for us to worry about what you think.

I would rather spend a lifetime alone, than with someone that has betrayed my heart-lying and cheating. Most women who have played the friends with benefits game, still when settling down, wants to feel as if they are number one! But speaking for myself, one man to settle down with... but until then...

I want honesty, passion, hard work, companionship, faithfulness, time together, time apart... Mutual respect... hmmm... yep in a nut shell that's it...

Hard working and going all out to seduce the woman they are attracted to, oh the strength in their arms and hands.

I've been the older woman... Yep, wasn't looking to be a Cougar but 16 year difference between our ages, and it was great passionately, but the maturity was not there... It caused major problems.

Hmmm, not to judge but wow, I see all the true Christians came out!!! Yeah, looked for a Christian man, a guy came knockin so to speak, I became the woman of his dreams... Guess what? He hasn't even tried to find out anything about me before saying that... So I figure he is either desperate, or he is after sex. Get to know me guys, for goodness sake, I wouldn't be on a Christian site if I was going to jump in bed with someone. I want a guy that can eventually lead to the man of MY dreams and if I find him?, he will love me for me, not what I produce in the sack.

First date sex? hmm, thats just for those that aren't looking for something serious. Real relationships are based off of mutual enjoyment from each others company, sex is option (great, preferred-but optional), base it off of sex then your relationship WON'T last, and if it does by some miracle, has the time been really great or has it been full of drama.