that makes sense

The right one is worth waiting for i guess... we are on the same boat... we just cant jump to anyone that comes our way though :)

[I totally agree...if there's a mutual interest from both party, a meet up should be done at an early stage to find out if the picture you are creating in your mind about the person is right or just an illusion. After the first meet up, thats when you'll know if its worth the time and emotions that youre about to invest. Best wishes to us all!!!]
Someone can be totally different when you meet. Even dating experts advice to meet fast and not spend weeks talking online or texting as the online thing can be deceiving.
Been there myself. Then met the guy, worst date ever. Very disappointing, as it had felt so good when we had chatted online. I actually thought I'd found the one for me, then he turned out to be an immature a-hole. You have to meet to find out what someone is really like.
But I wouldn't meet someone if there wasn't something that could be promising.