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Mon 11/30/09 02:36 PM

the original post is interesting, asking opinions on quantifying specifically how much is too much.

quantify - I think it is too much when a woman has upper arms that "roll" over her elbows, thighs that "roll over" her knees, or calves that "roll over" her ankles. I think it is too much where there is no proportion, just big.

qualification - that being said, if it affects your self-image negatively, impacts your health - and makes you un-happy and un-plesant to be around - it's too much (which may have nothing to do with my particular quantification above...)

on a side note, you are quite attractive :)...

drinker


haha thanks

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Sun 11/29/09 01:58 PM
I have 2 tats i have dark green ivy up my arm and then i have inisals on my wrist :-)

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Sun 11/29/09 12:28 PM

That's just it - everyone has a different opinion and really the only thing that matters is if you are happy and healthy. If you meet the right guy, he won't give two sh!ts about your size.


(I often hear guys saying "I love a girl with a bit of meat on her" but my question is when is "a bit of meat" to much.)

Really what Im asking is what is to much in your eyes. Everyone has a different opinion.



true story lol

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Sun 11/29/09 12:26 PM
yay me too haha

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Sun 11/29/09 12:25 PM
(I often hear guys saying "I love a girl with a bit of meat on her" but my question is when is "a bit of meat" to much.)

Really what Im asking is what is to much in your eyes. Everyone has a different opinion.

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Sun 11/29/09 12:21 PM

You are wise - well, at least you said what I wanted to say laugh flowerforyou



Why are "bigger girls" always asking what people think of "bigger girls"?


I was thinking of asking that myself..as a not bigger girl I didn't want to come off as a b!tch...really this question does get gone over and over and over. I always say if you are comfortable with your self, are healthy.. who cares??? It comes down to the same thing every time..
personal preference and "am I happy with who I am" F..the rest of them!



due to the fact that im new to this site(since yesterday) I had no idea this topic is talked about that much..

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Sun 11/29/09 12:04 PM




Why are "bigger girls" always asking what people think of "bigger girls"?



Self esteem and double standards I imagine. Society currently promotes an idea that there is no such thing as too skinny but on the flip side , there is very prevalent negative press towards women if they dont fit in the slim or skinny category.


Im like the last person to have self esteem isus haha.


not you personally ,,I was speaking in generalizations to answer the last post...sorry


haha your all good ;-)

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Sun 11/29/09 12:02 PM


Why are "bigger girls" always asking what people think of "bigger girls"?



Self esteem and double standards I imagine. Society currently promotes an idea that there is no such thing as too skinny but on the flip side , there is very prevalent negative press towards women if they dont fit in the slim or skinny category.


Im like the last person to have self esteem isus haha.

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Sun 11/29/09 11:58 AM
I personaly look for a guy thats the total package.In my eyes that is:
Someone with a great personality( Looks fade with time), though it cant hurt to be handsome, someone how is funny ( a guy with a great sence of humor melts my heart everytime), someone who is smart and knows what he wants in life. Also someone who has somewhat the same interrestes as me though not all the same interrests otherwise it could get boring.

Being shy isnt a bad thing:-)




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Sun 11/29/09 11:29 AM
Edited by ChubbyChick20 on Sun 11/29/09 11:44 AM
I myself am bigger young lady. I dont have a problem with not being a size 0 I´m also far from it hahaha.
I feel like all you ever see now a days in the media is exstreamly skinny women. Dont get me wrong theres nothing wrong with being skinny!
I often hear guys saying "I love a girl with a bit of meat on her" but my question is when is "a bit of meat" to much.
(im just using this as an example and I dont mean this in a mean way)

If your a bigger girl you probably shouldnt be wearing exstreamly tight clothing and If your 80 pounds you proabably shouldnt be wearing the shortest shirt you could find where you can see every single rib.

I think every women or girl is beautiful no madder what shape or size she is but I also think its what she makes out of her featurs and how she prasents herself.

I wanna hear some thoughts on this topic and I just notist that I put this in the wrong duiscusion bord thing hahha.