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Sat 03/11/17 03:24 PM



Money.......how much is enough.. never seems to be for those who are driven by it... they never get enough

Most that I know are actually miserable.. nice house.. nice cars.. pretty wife.. but miserable.

that " drive for money" is their life and in doing that they bypass all the important things.. family.. kids.. real friends

I knew one in particular.. loaded.. his entire life was to make money, and he did that very well.

When he died, that is ALL he had. His wife left, kids grew and because he was never around didn't really even know him

And since you can't take it with you in reality he had nothing.

And BTW nobody liked him.. no real friends. We went to the funeral ( viewing).. did the 5 minute thing and split.





But we can group all driven people into this category. I have plenty of friends, family, a child, all whom i hold dear and treasure.

My career and money makes me happy but i want a lady to fill the missing void.

I do not believe that there is no limit to money, i would be happy to be comfortable... Well... More so! :blush:but i dont strive for unlimited wealth.

The most miserable i have been is with a lack of money. With, life is euphoric.

Not all people fall short as you show, that's rather the minority in my experiences.

But a very valid point, and very well made. Thank you for your input :relaxed:


Well, everyone has different experiences. I have been around it for the better part of my career. And what I see is unhappiness, for the most part. If they are making $300K a year.. they are spending $350K a year...never enough.

What I see is people working basically 24/7.. always connected. Always traveling.. rarely home and when they are.. they are still working or talking about.. work.

I work.. a lot and I can tell you, it is a very fine line between making everything ad losing everything that matters.

But best of luck to you


I absolutely agree with you. But i keep my career to 55 hours a week, very meticulous and frugal with spending, so i live a lesser life style than i could so my money saves up and i dont breach that threshold.

Its all about management of time, life and relationships. Mine is all good, just need that little extra from a lady :)

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Sat 03/11/17 03:07 PM
Most people i have met who say 'money doesn't buy happiness' either have had everything done and bought for them so they have no appreciation of the value of money

Or

They have never had a real substantial amount of it to enjoy.

I have worked hard and fought for everything in my life, and now i am ontop finally after all the pain and miss fortune i have had, i wont ever stop. Life is finally good. I just want a fellow minded person to enjoy it with :)

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Sat 03/11/17 03:04 PM

Money.......how much is enough.. never seems to be for those who are driven by it... they never get enough

Most that I know are actually miserable.. nice house.. nice cars.. pretty wife.. but miserable.

that " drive for money" is their life and in doing that they bypass all the important things.. family.. kids.. real friends

I knew one in particular.. loaded.. his entire life was to make money, and he did that very well.

When he died, that is ALL he had. His wife left, kids grew and because he was never around didn't really even know him

And since you can't take it with you in reality he had nothing.

And BTW nobody liked him.. no real friends. We went to the funeral ( viewing).. did the 5 minute thing and split.





But we can group all driven people into this category. I have plenty of friends, family, a child, all whom i hold dear and treasure.

My career and money makes me happy but i want a lady to fill the missing void.

I do not believe that there is no limit to money, i would be happy to be comfortable... Well... More so! :blush:but i dont strive for unlimited wealth.

The most miserable i have been is with a lack of money. With, life is euphoric.

Not all people fall short as you show, that's rather the minority in my experiences.

But a very valid point, and very well made. Thank you for your input :relaxed:

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Sat 03/11/17 02:43 PM

The OP did say he wants a lady "similar driven, successful,dedicated and commited to work, money and a partner. Notice he put partner last.


Based on my current order or what I have :) partner i do not. But indeed, well noticed. Doesnt mean to read like that

Thank you for your time in reading and responding

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Sat 03/11/17 02:33 PM

Just be careful. IMO this is not the site to find someone who is "like minded" in line w/the lifestyle you desire.

Your post does not specify that the woman must come w/her own $$, therefore giving the readers the idea that YOU will be providing this materialistic lifestyle & THEY will be enjoying it. You need to specify that you want career/professional women only. That will help weed out the females who want to be supported.

I understand that things may be different in terms of socio-economics in England vs the U.S., but human nature is the same everywhere. I hope you find what you are looking for & I would be amazed if you found it here LOL...


Thank you for your input. I will alter my profile to make that clear. Maybe i will, maybe i wont find them on here, but you never know without trying :)

Thank you

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Sat 03/11/17 02:03 PM

Yes.. young man, climb that corporate ladder will you still have the strong legs to do it with... but one piece of advice... if you're looking for someone as materialistic as yourself.. what do you think will happen... if you can no longer give her all the things you can.
Now... do you think that materialistic person will stand by your side then.?.Hmm..
Nothing wrong with wanting what you want.... but I would think you would want a little bit more... then just a relationship built on materialistic needs..... money comes and goes looks fade.. but true deep love only grows deeper and stronger.. no matter what you can give to each other...

Ok... I'm all done..lol.. peace out white bread..lol




Yes i fully understand that. I have had normal relationships and they havent lasted due to my own desires for money etc. So this is my last try at settling down. I have denied who i was for most of my life. I have finally accepted who i am and what i desire. So if i can find a partner with the same qualities that i desire, i will try :)

If it fails, i have fully come to peace that i am happy to live life for money and my career. If love doesnt work for me, i am more than happy after that.

The idea is of being with a fellow materialist, is that its not what we buy eachother, its what we buy ourselves, that together makes us happy. Not spending frivolously on eachother :)

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Sat 03/11/17 01:24 PM



Anyone there?


READ MY POST. WOMEN ONLY, DONT THREAD JACK

THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU.
Actually, the fault is yours, anyone and
everyone is entitled to post to any thread on here.

Welcome, all things in time :-)


You are right, it was not very tolerant of me. I apologise for my statement to all

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Sat 03/11/17 01:23 PM

If that's who you are and what you want....you do you boo


We all have our lives and ambitions. Mine revolves around money. As it does for the few amongst the majority who choose family etc

Its a very strong statement, but somewhere out there, there is a lady who will be like minded who i can be happy with :)

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Sat 03/11/17 01:18 PM
I appreciate that :) i shall learn indeed.


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Sat 03/11/17 11:59 AM
Thank you for your kind words

I would like to message you but i cant x

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Sat 03/11/17 06:28 AM
Edited by Sandeala on Sat 03/11/17 06:28 AM
I am a very hard worker. I love my career and only want to climb the corporate ladder to earn and achieve more. I have love to give, but most goes into my work and success. I want a lady who is similar driven, successful, dedicated and committed to both her work, money and partner.

Can you offer what i have to offer?

That is who i am, just straight to the point. I dont mess around, im black and white, i know what i want.

I don't want to false hope you, lead you on, pretend im anyone other than my true self which is a materialist.

I fully understand if im not who you would want, but always just say so.

Thank you for your time and chance on me in advance! :)

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Sat 03/11/17 04:42 AM
I would love to talk, smile, share each others stories, maybe meet for coffee or a drink.

Im an honest, very hard working and successful man, i would like the same in my perfect partner.

Someone who money means a lot to and who believes it brings happiness.

I have tried and failed at relationships based on just wanting companionship, i want a worker, a good earner and someone who is like minded about money and work.

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Sat 03/11/17 04:20 AM
Im getting there. Have had some lovely warming conversations with people. Lots of love out there to be given. Just hasnt been the right one... Or people arent willing to chance things because their picture of an ideal man is all in their looks not who they are.

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Sat 03/11/17 04:14 AM
Not looking for a hookup as one time occasion.

It is far less than desirable for me, but a hook up can develop into emotions which could lead to more and maybe even finding that special someone.

Anything is worth a try :)

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Tue 03/07/17 11:38 PM
I am from somerset, north :)

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Tue 03/07/17 04:55 PM
One or all can lead to love :relaxed:

Live in somerset, any ladies around looking for that someone special? Im searching for my princess.

She is out there somewhere :) x

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Tue 03/07/17 04:12 PM
Im very independent. Iv met and got with very dependent women... Always ended badly... I need to find my independent lady :)

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Tue 03/07/17 04:01 PM
So every relationship i have had iv been crushed...

I want to find my soulmate and true love.

Im in somerset but happy to travel.

Friendship, dating, romance, passion, making love, want it all...

Looking for interest :blush:

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Mon 03/06/17 12:27 PM
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