My current gf of 12 yrs was a single mother of 1 (well 3 but the other 2 were away) when I met her. The first and foremost thing I said coming into the relationship was that her daughter was #1 in her life and I was #2. It is always important for any partner of a single parent to know and accept their place, after the child(ren) if they cannot accept that then move on. I also have an acquaintance who is with a mother of three and helps support the house.

Just to say there are men out there that will accept and RESPECT you and your 2yr old, don't rush or force it. Meet people, make friends, and eventually you will meet the right person. Remember we DO exist...