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Sat 09/08/07 12:04 AM
A true boyfriend will....


Allow you to carry him through the rough times when he doesn't have the strength to walk on his own, and reciprocate when you need to be carried...

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Sat 09/08/07 12:00 AM
I actually seen that news clip as I was leaving for work this afternoon... Made me cringe...

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Fri 09/07/07 11:26 PM
Hey everyone... I think this is a great topic and appreciate everyone posting about depression, anxiety etc.. I had a serious bout with anxiety and panic attacks for about 5 years, I got to the point where I didn't want to leave my house.. I found that the stem of the problem was stress of a relationship I was in. There was 12 years difference in age between him and I and he was very controlling.. Not abusive or mean just a control freak. I had to end the relationship and as I found that I was gaining my independence back the panic attacks became less and less. They were still there, just not as bad. Then I just decided one day that every time I had an attack I would start self talking in my head very negative things, which only made them worse. It was then that I decided to change it. I started meditating daily and did my best to self talk in a positive manner.. It worked, I have not had a full blown panic attack in about 3 years.
If I can be of any help to anyone, sharing experiences with this subject please feel free to start a dialoge. This type of disorder can be debilitating.. I know and my life is much better now..

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Fri 09/07/07 10:59 PM
Thanks for the clarification...guess I should pay better attention!!!! drinker

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Fri 09/07/07 10:51 PM
Geesh I guess I'm just a retard or something.. The mutual match thing confuses me. I thought that the mutual matches that show up on your account were like randomly selected for you by the site genie???!!! lol Are these people that are interested in you or what? How does it work??

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Thu 09/06/07 11:55 PM
Gypsy.. You are having a blast it seems.. We wanna come over and boogie with ya!!!

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Thu 09/06/07 11:53 PM
I was delighted to see him in a theatre in Dallas and I am very saddened by the loss. But also know that he is probably jumping for joy to see all the people he has lost in his life and to be with them again on the other side.

Have a safe and quick journey home young man, your work here is done. Thank you for the music...


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Thu 09/06/07 11:43 PM
Dear diary.. I had a Dejavu today and I hope it doesn't come to light tmw.. if so I'm gonna run like hell!!!

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Thu 09/06/07 11:36 PM
Bath..

alone or with company?

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Thu 09/06/07 11:34 PM
Italian... unless your referring to men!!! Then it would have to be ranch!!! Love me a cowboy!!

Sorry.. had to go therelaugh


thunder or lightning?

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Thu 09/06/07 11:31 PM
Being single until I find the right one.. then marriage..

drive in or theatre?

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Thu 09/06/07 11:22 PM
Both.. depends on the my mood and the rest of the wardrobe!

snakes or spiders

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Thu 09/06/07 11:18 PM
Beer..
Iris or Tulips

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Wed 09/05/07 11:31 PM
The best education you can get is life, and often times it comes with the hardest lessons.. Keep your chin up and always smile..

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Wed 08/29/07 11:48 PM
People who don't have any manners...

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Wed 08/29/07 11:14 PM
1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
Yes... Ruth from the Bible

2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED?
Today when I found out my dryer was going to cost $150.00 to repair!!!

3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
Yes

4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT? 5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS?
Smoked Turkey.. None of my own, raised my niece and nephew..

6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Yes I certainly would.. but I'm a bit biased!!!

7. DO YOU USE SARCASM ALOT?
Depends on the company I'm with..

8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS
Yeppers

9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
If I had someone there to call the peramedics when I'm done!!!

10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL?
Frosted Flakes

11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
Very rarely wear tennis shoes, but when I do.. yes..

12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG?
Strong as in physically? Yes I think I can hold my own.. Strong as in resiliant.. Most certainly..

13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
Black Walnut

14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?
Their eyes...

15. RED OR PINK?
Red

16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF?
Too high strung...


17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST
My mother..


19. WHAT COLOR PANTS AND SHOES ARE YOU WEARING?
Blue jeans, barefoot.. just got off work..

20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
Spanish rice...

21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
Nothing... love quiet when I get home after work..

22. IF YOU WHERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE?
Indigo..

23. FAVORITE SMELLS?
Lilacs... Pumpkin pie..Old spice cologne, and Captain Black tobacco.. (My daddy wears it and smokes a pipe)

24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?
My brother..

25. DO YOU LIKE THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO YOU?
I've read your posts, think you are a nice person, don't really know you but you do amazing work with your photos.

26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?
Hockey..

27. HAIR COLOR?
Brown..ish red...

28. EYE COLOR?
Hazel

29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS?
Nope

30. FAVORITE FOOD?
Steak and a baked potato..!!! lol

31. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS?
Both... depends on the company..

32. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?
The Breakup... It's old, I think.. !! I don't watch too much t.v. bought the dvd at a garage sale.. !

33. WHAT COLOR SHIRT ARE YOU WEARING?
Blue

34. SUMMER OR WINTER?
Winter
35. HUGS OR KISSES?
Both
36. FAVORITE DESSERT?
Chocolate Merrainge Pie... (Spl)??

37. MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND?
To ????

38. LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND
To????

39. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING NOW?
Care of the Soul.. "Thomas Moore".. read all my books many times so I just keep re-reading them!

40. WHAT IS ON YOUR MOUSE PAD?
Laptop..

41. WHAT DID YOU WATCH ON T.V. LAST NIGHT?
The Cosby's @ 1:00 a.m. when I got off work..

42. FAVORITE SOUND?
Nature

43. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES?
Beatles..

44. WHAT IS THE FARTHEST YOU HAVE BEEN FROM HOME?
Arkansas.. Haven't done much travelin been too busy with life!!

45. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT?
Love to sing, play the flute and the violin, and know sign language like the back of my hand(both parents were deaf mutes).

46. WHERE WERE YOU BORN?
Wichita, KS

47. WHOSE ANSWERS ARE YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO GETTING BACK?
It'll be very interesting to read everyone's..

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Wed 08/29/07 10:47 PM
Happy Birthday Heartbroken... hope you had/have a great day!flowerforyou drinker

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Tue 08/28/07 11:57 PM
Finding the toothpaste minus the lid really pisses me off...

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Sat 08/25/07 08:26 PM
Granted...but you are sooo rich you turn in to the Scrooge...

I wish it was winter..

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Sat 08/25/07 08:17 PM
Well according to the chart I'm a purple...

But my fav color is red...

Damn what does that mean??


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