I'll give ya a "girls" point of view or at least mine.

I disagree about racing being your pitfall and to avoid talking about it too much. If you love it and it is your passion, you need, and hopefully wil find, the right woman who also has that passion.

Though I am not a huge race fan by any means, I know quite a few of my girl friends that are diehards, just as I am about the Sox. Find one of them, don't give up what you love.

As for having the gift of gab, just be you.

Good luck.

I consider myself to have an excellent "gift of gab"......

.....not that it makes a lot of difference. Women can smell an empty wallet a mile away .