waitingfortherain


waitingfortherain Joined Fri 12/22/17 Posts: 2	Sat 04/07/18 07:59 AM Topic: Face the fear of intimacy Edited by waitingfortherain on Sat 04/07/18 08:05 AM
Not trying to be clever but I think fear may be the wrong term. I think fear, although an emotion, is caused by a sense of danger or harm. I think excitement in a positive way or apprehension in a worried way is more like it, for me anyway. My concern would be myself. Have I become happy enough in my own world that tearing down my walls for someone would expose the weaknesses I’ve spent years hiding so well. Joel, showing vulnerability is the definition of intimacy. Without it, we are all just procreating robots. What does "happy enough" mean to you? Comfortable in your current circumstances, resigned to your position in life? Is it happiness or complacency?