For someone to say something so hateful to either of you only speaks to their own deep emotional problems not yours.

I don't see how in this century you can assign character to the length of a persons hair or assume from any of the pictures I have seen of you that it is not clean. My guess is has less dirt, oil, and or product than many women that only have it styled once a week but that is my personal bug-a-boo. No long hair on most guys is not my preference either but I don't see attacking someone because it is their's. Actually I think you have and intrigueing appearance and personality and frequently find your post well worth reading.

It is my opinion You have a very pretty heart shaped face and eyes that I would think many men would find feminine and inviteing. You are honest enough to say your weight is not ideal but I would hardly call it extream. Your profile text could be a little more focused on your good experiences but I would think someone who has the forethought career wise, intelligence, and desire to help others to be a nurseing student, has good values, likes to have fun would have more than a good chance of attracting someone equally desireable so "hopeless" doesn't seem like it would apply to me.

I don't see the need to call people names period. If you are not attracted to a person's appearance/profile you can stop at that. If and when they approach you a simple Thanks but no Thanks is plenty. Actually a non-response is enough IMHO. Personally I wouldn't waste my breath responding to the people who sent these offensive emails but I would be highly likely to report what sounds like a violation of site rules.

Are those anything like the ones I get telling me I won a couple million dollars? You mean they aren't real? But, but...damn, they seemed SO HONEST.

I got a scammer with a fake picture and profile knocked off 2 weeks ago. Kept sending the same form email over and over. Damn foreign scammers can't get their words, consonants, and nouns in a row. Their writing looks like a bad "D!ck and Jane" novel puking up adverbs. "Hi, I am carole. I am liking you. I am thinking freinds that we can be. Maybe yes? I very much like profile. I'm very much thinking compatible we may be. Me so very lonely. Please send $10,000 in US funds. Much love".

i had a guy from pof last yr that aparently lived back east some where and said that he was going to be in oregon to visit friends within a few days and he pretty much invited himself to live with me..(i dont think so)

Oh I've had some good ones also. "Hi, I'm ******. Anyone ever tell you to get a haircut? You are really ugly. Get a haircut and get yourself cleaned up and maybe you might get a date loser". Should have seen my reply.