They want to hear..real.
If you are shy, say so..vulnerable, let it work for you.
Smiling never hurts, though don't go all goofy.
Listen.
If they get a letch for you, try to let it flow.

Pretend they are special.
A one-of-a-kind happening.
It does not hurt to let them think you are
struck dumb with awe.

Don't approach more than one a night in
the same location.
They can tell.
Don't stare, smile and look away.

Don't start with the compliments before
they are earned.
Be you, with all the charm of a man..searching.