Community > Posts By > NINERSLEAFFAN
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      I think too serious, Can A Thread be Revived After Death????
     
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      Garbage Pail
     
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        This or That - part 5
       
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      Email
 
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        Really!?!?!?
       
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     What I know about you is what you want people who read your profile to know. If you don't want people to judge you by what you write, hide your profile. If you don't want people to judge you harshly by what you write, write something else. On a venue such as this, you are here to be "judged," we all are. And that judgment is made, again, based on how people present themselves. "Judged" I think this is the forums.... I think this is where we chat and maybe come to our own conclusions... your entitled to your opinion not gonna gang up on ya G2009, but I think if someone wants opinions about there profile it would be in that section   
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      Jim Carey
     
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      Herbie Hancock
     
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        Name a booze you like A-Z
       
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      Pina Colada
     
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      Door
     
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      keep
     
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      Yes- Owner of a lonely heart
     
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      Fergie
     
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      Nope
 
  What would make someone want to try and suck the snot otta your nose?  | 
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      Working Class Hero - John Lennon
 
  Greenday Ozzy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lKwXwU5iWs&feature=related  | 
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      The Trews -Acoustic- Gun Control
     
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     It don't bother me when i see that on someones profile. Cause everyone that comes out of a relationship brings baggage with them. Good or bad. And I believe that cheaters can learn to not be cheaters, and liars can change to tell the truth. I am not here to throw stones. I to have lied, i to have cheated, And I do NOT live in a glass house. But I have changed. And i have been cheated on. I can't let my past inturrupt my future. And I have a great man that i told all my faults too, and guess what? He still wants me and loves me. And I never wanna hurt his beautiful heart! Ok, but I havent looked at your profile, but did you ask that none of the above traits need not contact you?(when you were single?) If you did not list it on your profile and in our first few emails painted that picture I still absolutely would want to get to know you, but we haven't even gotten that far. I understand someone looking for specifics (never married, no kids, non smoking), but no lying cheating bs? Don't get me wrong you are a straitshooter and r A.O.K. and he's lucky to have ya, we all have a story agreed; would you pick up a book that has a front cover that says you must make 100k a year, drive a Ferrari & Own a Yatch; Or you need not purchase?   
LOL    No i didn't put that on mine when I was single. I didn't narrow my search. I got to know a few ppl and some of them ended up being good friends. And some of them have issues. Like i did and do. I'm not perfect and i never expect anyone else to be perfect. That way they don't let u down. I will tell you a lil about me. My first husband was a great guy, great father. But we were young! Real young. But got married anyways. First couple years were great. Then we both became unhappy. I would belittle him. Couldn't stand even listening to him eat. Everything he did, felt like nails on a chalkboard to me. And vise versa. He cheated on me. But we stayed together almost 10 years. Then I finally left. He is happy now and so am i. Do I blame him for cheating?? NO! I was a mean angry person! Why he stood that long is beyond me! But I am now grown up. I have changed. For the better. I am happy! So will he cheat on his new wife? I doubt it. They are in love and respect eachother. He deserves that, specially after the hell I put him thru. And I wish him the best. I try not to hide anything from my boyfriend. And he told me his. So if someone is a cheat or a liar then maybe for the right person they can change into a better person. Or maybe they will change for themself. I understand where ur coming from. And I wish u the best  
Thanks Bella, you are about as realistic and down to earth, your a great person in my books   
I will be more open minded, and look past the negatives.  | 
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      Alice in Chains
     
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        Topic:
        This or That - part 5
       
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      Always room for Jello
 
  Chocolate or Vanilla?  | 
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      Yes
     
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        Topic:
        This or That - part 5
       
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      Ocean
 
  Plane or Train?  | 
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        Topic:
        This or That - part 5
       
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      Mountain climbing
 
  Sea Doo or Ski doo?  | 
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  No i didn't put that on mine when I was single. I didn't narrow my search. I got to know a few ppl and some of them ended up being good friends. And some of them have issues. Like i did and do. I'm not perfect and i never expect anyone else to be perfect. That way they don't let u down. I will tell you a lil about me. My first husband was a great guy, great father. But we were young! Real young. But got married anyways. First couple years were great. Then we both became unhappy. I would belittle him. Couldn't stand even listening to him eat. Everything he did, felt like nails on a chalkboard to me. And vise versa. He cheated on me. But we stayed together almost 10 years. Then I finally left. He is happy now and so am i. Do I blame him for cheating?? NO! I was a mean angry person! Why he stood that long is beyond me! But I am now grown up. I have changed. For the better. I am happy! So will he cheat on his new wife? I doubt it. They are in love and respect eachother. He deserves that, specially after the hell I put him thru. And I wish him the best. I try not to hide anything from my boyfriend. And he told me his. So if someone is a cheat or a liar then maybe for the right person they can change into a better person. Or maybe they will change for themself. I understand where ur coming from. And I wish u the best