I always ask because I have found the site to be predominantly populated by frauds, unfortunately, but there have to be some of us actually sincere in our quest to find a relationship. Maybe I am in the minority, but I find very few ladies actually live where they state in their profile or are the age they list as well. I have also found dozens of profiles with members (and you can’t be sure if they are women or men can you?), using the photos of the same lady? Different shots, even of the girl at different weights and thus ages, but clearly the same woman. This is likely identity theft! I don’t mean to be rude or to embarrass but simply am trying to weed out potential scammers early on so that we both aren’t wasting our time, or to determine if the distance is going to be an insurmountable issue for either one of us. I’m curious if anyone else has had a similar experience? It can’t just be me??? Thanks everyone!