All good advice.
<~~~~~ Single dad with 7 kids total. 6 boys and 1 girl. I have custody of all but one of my children (We all live together). I'm in the process of divorcing my wife so will not post a picture until divorce is final for obvious reasons.

A couple questions which is going to alter my advice. How old are your boys?

I was raised by a single mother up until 12 when she turned into an alcoholic. I pretty much learned everything
I needed to know except about relationships. I learned that the hard way before I became red pill. But the age of your kids will help me give you some solid advice.