Hey nofinergem, I am feelin you but I think that alot of our brothas are
on other sites... This is more like a social website than a
dating one. I too was a woman who wanted my black men and stood by
whatever and since I have grown in myself and my quest for what makes me
happy, I have learned that a man of substance and high moral standing is
what I am looking for and since god is the one in charge and isn't a
racist, I am kinda keeping an open mind I have to say it was
hard because I have only had black men, but my church is very diverse in
race and recently I have been dating a hispanic man, and I have to say I
can't remember the last time I laughed so hard with someone, and I am
finding that I don't even seen the fact that he is hispanic..So keep an
open mind and if you want some really great dating sites I can help you
out,just hit me up!!!! and good luck gurl... Hey you guys,
where did my smokin icon go????? DAMM, DAMM, DAMM !!!!!!!

Well let's hope the boss goes easy on you... and heres some
flowers for just in case Lol

No 2 both questions,but then I am a loyal "Cubs"fan,so there goes my
credibility.. GO CUBS...

Hi shadoweagle, Hope you enjoy it on here, and welcome

The best kiss is from the depths of your feet and moves through you like
a kind spirit, It is best when done with someone you love or someone
like "Loves2please" (smile)Mary

Hi countryboy, I don't think that there is a mr or ms right,the best
relationships are those that are formed by secure, happy people who are
looking to enhance someones life not have a partner that you need to
define who you are. The happier you are with yourself, the happier you
will be in a relationship, and the key is "NOT" to settle,in order to
get what you want, you must be willing to let go of what you
don't.

Hi coastie, very interesting question, and my opinion is that it does'nt
make you a bad person too get bored sometimes,but if you think always
looking outside the home for fullfilment is the answer, than you truly
are fooling yourself. sometimes we get married to the wrong
person or for the wrong reasons,if this is your situation than do whats
right and live with it,but if you love your spouse,then man or woman up
and look deep inside yourself and find that spark again,don't do whats
easy by giving in to temptation, try to do whats morally right.

Because we are the gifts, and we are supposed to be choosen and not
waste are time looking,enjoy everyday like it was your last and find
yourself some fun things to do and let whatever happens happen,but the
key is to enjoy your life and live with lots of confidence and self
love,you might start enjoying life on a much different level, i know I
did... Maryc, P.S the book store "Boarders"and I became
very good friends and I love all the knowledge I have gained from
reading and not feeling sorry for myself,just a suggestion....(smile)

Hey Husky, I think this girl is more confused then you are, If she
understood true and real love you would'nt be in this prediciment,she is
getting something from both you guys and being selfish by letting you
put your life on hold for something that clearly isn't going to
happen,it sounds like you like the idea of being in love and don't fully
understand what takes to make love work,if she will play your cousin,she
will play you too,you need to tell your cousin and both you guys cut her
loose!!!!! She is the devil..

Whats your definition of true love,if I recall you were just asking for
a black woman,saying how great they were in bed, then you wanted country
girls, now you want true, love...are you as confused as you are making
me???? Maryc

Hey Morena, the reason is that these type of people probably have a hard
time with closure in all aspects of their life, I get e-mails from
married men, men in relationships and so on.Also some woman are so damm
thirsty that they accept any way a man comes at them, if you are on here
looking for true love,you are making your 1st mistake,and if you don't
know the proper questions to ask a potential mate,then you just made
your second..

On what research do you place your comment that "Black"woman are the
greastest lovers in the world???? The greastest lover in the world is
the one that knows that you are only as good as the feelings you have
for the person you are with, and color matters not, trust me...

I am a "BEARSFAN"but happy to be playing the "COLTS"if we are to
lose,(NOT!!!)no other team I would want to lose too.....Go Bears !!!!!

Just wanted to respond to why people play head games, I don't think
playing games to see if someone is into you is ever right because the
person that they are into isn't even the real you, its someone playing
games.I believe game playing is done out of fear of rejection and not
really knowing how to have a funtional relationship. Mary from chicago,