WhoIAm, I get where your coming from in ur last post. My girl and I were together for 2 years, on and off. She kept going back and forth between me and her ex bf. Then in Nov on my birthday told me she was ready to really be with me. By christmas time she was supossed to come to my place for her bday dinner and she wanted me to go pick her up then have him come get her so she could stay the night with him to go to church the next morning. I told her to go **** herself and now they are dating. Funny how you give everything you have to someone who just rips ur heart out, stomps & spits on it. Its going to take time to get over it. She was my bestfriend and now I don't ever want to see her again.. Oh well, I'll be just fine.. someday!