asexual is A person who does not experience sexual attraction.

As some of you may already know, I was with a girl for just a month and a half, I have posted on here since day one of the relationship. She dumped me on Christmas night because she is asexual, that's when she told me about her asexuality, she should have told me about it earlier on; she wouldn't even kiss me because of it. For some reason, it's been almost a week and I am not over the whole thing yet, I'm taking it pretty hard. I can't stop thinking about her, I barely even leave my bedroom. My question is, how can I get motivated to do anything? I just keep feeling sorry for myself, and still very confused.

wow, i think i may have hit the post topic too many times when it was loading...oops

well, me being as shy as I am, just going up to the girl at work boosted my confidence a lot.

we know how long he has been divorced for, but how long was he married and how long was he with her before the marriage?

because the states are awesome

I went up to the girl at work today, talked a little then asked her if she would like to go to the concert tomorrow night...boom, shot down, she was nice about it and said she was flattered, but she has a boyfriend. I'm not that good at conversation either, never know where to start, or how to keep going.

that's good advice willy, I am going to ask her at work tomorrow, I just hope she is working tomorrow because if she's not there, obviously I can't ask.

thanks for the advice again chief

myself, i want a relationship...I am a romantic, so I have to show the romance. Can't help it.

thank you, i hope i can get back before a couple months, but if it takes that much time, so be it.

yes, I know, that was yesterday, I was very tired which is why i said i hated her. I will find someone else, it just may take some time...hopefully not much time though.

the only thing that sucks is we were only together for about a month and a half. I have no idea why I have such feelings for her, especially since I know she is a total (fill in the blank)

Also, when I was out there, I know I shouldn't have been, but I kept thinking about Kelly. I try not to, but it happens.

well, I just got back home, I know, I wasn't gone long. Everywhere I went, all the girls were extremely young, what most people would call illegal, I didn't want to waste any more of my time. I don't do bars, so that is out of the question, don't want any drunk women.

After careful consideration, I am going to try many things. I am going out right now to book stores and coffee shops to try to meet women. I am going to talk to a girl at work. I have myself on here, but there is no one really in my area on here that opens my eyes. I put a personal on Craigslist.com just now, which may be a mistake, since the girl that just dumped me on Christmas had a personal on there, that's how we met. But I will give that a try with my own personal to see how that goes. Hopefully I meet someone outside the internet though. Wish me luck.

do you klc?

thanks

I wasn't planning on telling her it was for another girl, i was just going to say i have an available ticket and i would like to take her.

What is the best way for me to approach a woman? I don't talk a lot so that's where I have a problem, starting up a conversation.

Coffee shops, book stores, grocery stores, I don't do bars.

There is a girl at work that I am attracted to, but I have never talked to her, I don't like to bother people when they are working. I do say hi, and how are you doing to her though. I have a concert I am going to Saturday night and because my girlfriend and I just broke up I have an extra ticket available. Would this approach work for the girl at my job? "I realize we don't talk at all, but I have a concert I am going to on Saturday and I have an extra ticket available, I was wondering if you would like to join me?"

Not sure if she has a boyfriend or not either